Saturday, December 26, 2009

What's this "Holy Family" Stuff? Reflection for the Feast of the Holy Family, December 27, 2009

The Holy Family: Today's Scripture: Sirach 3: 2-6, 12- 14 or 1Samuel 1: 20-28 ; Colossians 3: 12-21 or 1 John 3: 1-2, 21-24; Luke 2: 41-52 can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

“Seeing Family Life As Holy - Warts and All”

As the above title from a past Catholic Update reminds us, the very title of today’s feast, “the Holy Family,” is, for many, an oxymoron. It is a title that can certainly evoke many sentiments, ranging from disbelief and laughter to anger and regret. “Oh yes”, we think, “that title refers to Jesus, Mary, and Joseph. But it certainly doesn’t refer to my family -especially after the Christmas celebrations!” Yes, somehow we picture that Jesus, Mary, and Joseph really did have halos! After all, Jesus was God- what more would anyone want???

Yet God’s Word reminds us today that a holy family is not a picture-perfect, halo-wearing family. Real life does involve relationships that grow, evolve, and change (1 Samuel, Luke).

As we begin a new year God's Word can encourage and strengthen us with the renewed awareness that real family life needs effort and work.

Remembering that God is present in the midst of all the reality can make a difference! (Colossians).

To think about:
Do I try to accept myself and the members of my family as people loved by God?
Do I ask God to help me grow in compassion, kindness, patience, and forgiveness?
Where do I look for values for family life?
Do I have unreal expectations of what family life can be?
Do I show that family life is a priority for me in the way I use my time and energy?

To do: Set realistic goals for the new year with other family members.
Make gratitude and thanks part of daily life by noticing your blessings and thanking God.
Ask God to help you see yourself and your family members as God sees them.
Take time to access good family life sites such as www.familylifecenter.net, www.foryourmarriage.org, or the about.com marriage site for good ideas on family life.
Find ways to make God and the church community part of your family life, especially by joining activities with other families.

To pray: “I will hold your people in my heart.”

Next week: Epiphany of the Lord: Isaiah 60: 1-6; Ephesians 3: 1-6; Matthew 2: 1-12

Saturday, December 19, 2009

"Making Room for God": Reflection for Sunday, Dec 20, 2009; 4th Sunday in Advent

Today's Scripture can be read at www.usccb.org/nab : Micah 5: 1-4; Hebrews 10: 5-10; Luke 1: 39-45

Making Room for God

How easy it is to fill both the visible and invisible areas of our lives with possessions and activities that occupy every available space! Our lives can become so filled, that there is no space available for a quiet moment. At times all the activity can leave us feeling frantic and even without joy; even the thought of an empty space can create a sense of unrest.

We need God’s Word today to remind us not only that God has been with each of us through our life journey, but also that God continues to dwell with us, here and now, in the midst of our lives, as in Bethlehem (Micah).

We need God’s Word to remind us that God calls each of us to a personal relationship. Like Mary, we need to make room in our lives so that God’s life can grow within us (Luke).

In the way that we live, in the way that we show our values and priorities, in the ways that we use our time, talent, and treasure, we let God’s presence grow in our lives. As we make more room in our lives for God, we become what God invites us to be: a home for God.

To think about:
How will I let the peace and hope of this season touch my life and my family’s life?
How will I try to remember that God is with me, and with all people, in the midst of daily life? Can I accept my own inadequacies and those of others with an awareness of God’s loving presence?

To do: Be aware of God’s presence in yourself and in those you meet.
Notice gifts of love, joy, and appreciation.
Let Christmas songs during the week become a prayer for all people.

To pray: “ Be born in our lives, we pray.”

Next: Celebration of the Birth of Jesus

Saturday, December 12, 2009

"Unwrapping the Gift of Joy": Reflection for December 13, 2009- 3rd Sunday of Advent

"Unwrappng the Gift of Joy" Reflection for 3rd Sunday of Advent
Today's Scripture : Zephaniah 3: 14-20; Philippians 4:4-7; Luke 3: 7-18 can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

Sometimes joy and good news seem like forgotten parts of life; we can be inundated with bad news on the local, national, and international levels, and finding moments of joy can seem like another task.
Joy can almost seem like a flower that is stepped upon - like a small, fragile creation that lasts for a short time.
In addition, sorrows, difficulties, and pressures can often seem magnified at this time of year because of the emphasis on "forced" or "obligatory" rejoicing and celebrating that surround us.
God’s Word today reminds us that true and lasting joy is a gift that is integral to our relationship with God and with others!(Zephaniah, Philippians)
Even in the midst of sorrows, a small glimmer of light and joy can shine.
Joy is really a gift that “keeps on giving”.
By the way we live and the decisions we make we, in turn, can be a source of joy for others (Luke).

To think about: Where do I and my family find joy?
Do I notice moments of joy in daily life?
Do I fill my life and my family’s life with reasons for joy or with reasons for anxiety?
Is joy part of my relationship with God?
Do I thank God for the many gifts in my life?
How do I and my family try to bring joy to others?

To do: Take time either alone or with others to remember moments of joy. As you remember those moments, enjoy the smile that comes to your heart and to your face!
Notice moments of joy in your life now.
Continue to bring joy to others by the way that you use your time, talent, and treasure.
When you light your Advent wreath, thank God for someone who has brought joy into your life.

To pray: “Rejoice in the Lord always…”

Next week: 4th Sunday of Advent: Micah 5: 2-5; Hebrews 10: 5-10; Luke 1: 39-55

Friday, December 4, 2009

"Change Is In the Air": Reflection for December 6, 2009, 2nd Sunday of Advent:

2nd Sunday of Advent: Baruch 5: 1-9; Philippians 1: 4-11; Luke 3: 1-6
Today's Scripture can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

All of us have probably seen the changes that construction brings, including varied landscape alterations and surprising detours that precede the arrival of new roads. Anticipation can build as preparations unfold for these new developments.
As we begin this second week of our Advent season, a mood of preparation and anticipation pervades God’s Word.
God is building something new; with the announcement of an impending arrival, a sense of change is in the air! (Baruch, Luke)
Each of us can help prepare for this special time by the way we live.(Philippians)
God's Word today can both strengthen and renew us as we remember our calling to make a difference in our world.

To think about: Do I believe that God can make a difference in my life?
Do I think of myself as a herald or announcer of God’s presence through the way I live?
Do I try to bring Jesus’ values to my daily life at home, in school, at work?
What are some of the “mountains, hills or valleys” that keep God’s presence from being part of my everyday life?
Am I seeking ways to make some of “the rough places” of life into “a smooth path” for others by the way I use my time, talent and treasure?

To do:
If you really don’t need to shop one day, do something to help new life grow:
be more patient, turn off TV and take some quiet time, look for blessings where you usually don’t see any.
Refusing to forgive can be a “mountain” in our lives; ask God to help you forgive someone toward whom you may still hold a grudge.
Pray for each person for whom you write a card or wrap a gift.
Use small moments to thank God for your own gifts and blessings.
Express appreciation to others.
Let Christmas lights and music be reminders of God’s presence in your life and in your family’s life.

To pray: Hear God saying to you, “You are my messenger; prepare my way.”

Next week: 3rd Sunday of Advent: Zephaniah 3: 14-20; Philippians 4: 4-7; Luke 3: 7-18

Friday, November 27, 2009

"What Are You Awaiting?": Reflection for November 29, 2009, 1st Sunday of Advent

First Sunday of Advent: Jeremiah 33: 14-16; 1Thessalonians 3: 12-4:2; Luke 21: 25-28, 34-36
Today's Scripture can be read at www.usccb.org/nab
What Are You Awaiting?

Many of us have very little patience for waiting. Although we may find ourselves waiting in many different situations, we frequently consider waiting time to be “wasted” or “lost” time. The expectation of instant results can color our approach to many varied aspects of life - from daily tasks to relationships. Yet we know that, whether we like it or not, certain things in life just cannot be rushed! There are things in life for which we just have to wait!

As we begin this Advent season, God’s Word today reminds us to consider our values and priorities to see if God makes a difference in what we wait for and look for in life.
The reading from Jeremiah reminds us that God continues to come into our lives; while our reading from Luke reminds us of each person’s ultimate end to life in this physical plane of existence. Indeed, regardless of length of years, life is short!

Counterbalancing these heartfelt reminders, the reading from Thessalonians can greatly sustain us as we hear the prayer “May the Lord make you increase and abound in love for one another and for all…. so as to strengthen your hearts”

This prayer can anchor us and focus us as we begin our Advent season of 2009.

To think about: How do I react when I have to wait?
Do I often expect immediate results from my efforts?
Am I willing to “let go and let God”: to do what I can do and leave the results to God?
Do my actions show that I believe God is present in my life and in the lives of others?
What do I consider worth waiting for?
How patient am I when people do not act as I expect?

To do: Use everyday waiting times at stoplights, on shopping lines, or on the phone to breathe deeply and remember God’s presence within you.
These waiting times are also good times to remember others who are in need.
Call or visit someone who spends much of their day waiting in loneliness.
Be patient with someone you find difficult.
Wait before you buy that extra item; replace the impulse to buy something unnecessary with an action that serves or helps others.

To pray: “Come, Lord Jesus, give your people hope” or “Patience, for the Lord is coming.”

Next week: 2nd Sunday of Advent: Baruch 5: 1-9; Philippians 1: 4-11; Luke 3: 1-6

Thursday, November 19, 2009

"True Greatness/ Thankfulness": Reflection for the Feast of Christ the King, November 22, 2009

Today's Scripture , Daniel 7:13-14; Revelation 1: 5-8; John 18: 33-37, can be read at www.usccb.org/nab


True Greatness and Gratitude


As this Church Year comes to an end, we come together to celebrate an almost awe-inspiring, yet quite contradictory, vision in today’s feast of Christ the King. This "crowning" of the church year gives us incentive to consider our relationship with Jesus, the ways we think about him, and the ways that Jesus viewed himself.
Since we celebrate Thanksgiving this week, we might also consider our Scripture in the light of gratitude and thankfulness.

Although we may at times forget about Jesus’ divinity and power (Daniel, Revelation), God’s Word forcefully reminds us of Jesus' divine, eternal dimension. We can almost hear the trumpets sounding triumphantly as background for this King!
Yet, to our surprise and possible dismay, we also see how Jesus uses power, kingship and authority (John).
Jesus shows us that true power resides with accepting the truth that God is present in our lives and letting that presence make a difference in the way that we live.

God's Word challenges us to consider the ways that we view Jesus, and then to consider the ways that we try to live the Good News of Jesus in our world.
In our "Week of Thanks", we too can be more aware of our own "Gratitude Attitude" as we go through our daily lives. Sometimes we may be so intent on a great happening that we miss the many small blessings that can make a great difference in our lives.


To think about:

Whom or what do I worship by the way that I spend my time, talents and treasure?

Which image of Jesus do I prefer: the gloriously triumphant King or the servant King?

As I follow this King, do I seek glory or do I seek to serve?

Who are my children’s heroes; what is the message these heroes “preach” by their lives?

How many times a day do I thank God and thank others for the many everyday gifts?

How do I show thankfulness and gratitude in my life?


To do: Decide on ways to give gifts of service to others.

Select one or two ways to develop appreciation and thankfulness in your daily life by being more aware of the many gifts you already possess.

Challenge yourself and your family to develop a "Gratitude" or "Thanks" list each day this week. Notice the small everyday blessings!

Decide on limits for personal spending so that you can gift others who have less.

Serve others by brightening another’s life in some way by helping joyfully and gratefully as you respond to some need.


To pray: Let yourself sing "How great Thou art" a few times each day.


Next week: First Sunday of Advent: Jeremiah 33: 14-16; 1Thessalonians 3: 12-4:2; Luke 21: 25-36

Friday, November 13, 2009

"A Season for Everything": Reflection for November 15, 2009; 33rd Sunday in Ordinary Time

Today's Scripture passages: Daniel 12: 1-3; Hebrews 10: 11-18; Mark 13: 24-32, are available at http://www.uscc.org/nab

A Season for Everything

Almost all the leaves have fallen from the trees; branches are bare and stark. As darkness continues to increase each day, we spend more time indoors. I’ve found that, for some unknown reason, schoolwork can often become more intense at this point in the school term; assignments and responsibilities seem to build to a crescendo.

With our Thanksgiving celebration approaching, we know that “countdowns” to holidays will touch our lives. Next week the church community will close the calendar on another church year.
Yes, this month is a time of transition, a reminder that life changes. We still have a few weeks to go before light increases in the afternoon, before we celebrate newness, before nature’s new life emerges once again.

God’s Word today reminds us that endings are not final for God (Daniel), for new life can blossom in unexpected places (Mark).

God’s Word also challenges us to bring light, hope and life to our world (Mark).

As we consider life’s changes, let us be more aware of our many blessings and the ways that we share those blessings with others.

To think about:
What are some signs that remind me of life’s brevity?
Do I let an awareness of life’s transience influence my priorities, my actions, and my decisions? Who are some people who bring light, hope, or new life to our world?
How do I or my family bring life and light to others?
Do I make gratitude an integral part of my life, of my family's life?

To do: Let an awareness of life’s brevity influence one decision you make each day.
Remind yourself this week: “If I knew this were my last day, what would I do differently?" Express your gratitude for everyday blessings and for people who add joy and light to your life. Bring light to someone in poverty or ignorance by giving money you might use for yourself to a worthwhile cause.

To pray: Insert your name and hear Jesus say to you, “You, _____, are light for the world.”

Next week: Christ the King: Daniel 7:13-14; Revelation 1: 5-8; John 18: 33-37

Friday, November 6, 2009

"Many Small Beacons of Light": Reflection for November 8, 2009; 32nd Sunday in Ordinary Time

1 Kings 17: 10-16; Hebrews 9: 24-28; Mark 12: 38-44
Today's Scripture can be read in full at http://www.usccb.org/nab

I think that we'd all agree that a small flashlight can help us when we are in a dark place, and that a small nightlight can help provide comfort for children and a sense of safety for those who worry about tripping over objects at night.
Likewise we'd all probably agree that a friendly smile or a child's hug can brighten the day and that a word of encouragement can dispel doubt. Hopefully, we have all experienced the difference that some small gesture can make.
God's Word today reminds us of the significance of these "small gestures"(Kings, Mark).
We in turn are called to examine our own views toward what we value as significant, and to consider how we use our own small gifts to make a difference for God's People.

To think about:
Do I refrain from doing something because "it won't make a difference"?
Do I praise only the most obvious achievements, overlooking small efforts and accomplishments?
Do I thank God for small everyday blessings or do I overlook ordinary joys of daily life because they seem insignificant?

To do: Make that phone call, write that email or letter, send that card or visit that person you have been meaning to contact.
Notice ordinary gifts in your daily life; challenge your child to do an "Alphabet Thank You" to thank God for blessings.
Commend your child's efforts to change or to grow in some way.
Make an extra effort to share your own gifts through our Thanksgiving Food Drive.

To pray: Hear Jesus say to you, " You, (insert your own name), are a light for the world."

Next week: 33rd Sunday in Ordinary Time: Daniel 12:1-3; Hebrews 10: 11-18; Mark 13: 24-32

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Family Reunion: A Time to Remember and Reconnect: Reflection for the Feast of All Saints, November 1, 2009

Family Reunion: A Time to Remember and Reconnect:
Revelation 7:2-4, 9-14; 1John 3:1-3; Matthew 5:1-12
Scripture can be read at http//www.usccb.com/nab.

Family reunions can be wonderful ways to develop and foster a sense of connection with the past and present. People in photos take on new life; people in family stories assume a new reality; beloved memories resurface.

This weekend we celebrate our connection to those who have died. As we remember members of our own family, we also remember the greater extended family of God, including saints who are known to the universal church family and the countless saints who are known only to their local church or personal family. And as we remember, we once again acknowledge that death is part of life; death is the door that one enters to a new way of living.

Today God’s Word reminds us that there is life after this life (Revelation). As we remember those who now live in a new and fuller way, we can recall the love, care, and service that many of these people showed in their lives as they tried to live the message of Jesus (Matthew).
In turn, we can be encouraged by the promise of reunion (1 John) and be renewed in our desire to live a truly meaningful life that shows that each of us is a child of God.

To think about:
Who are some of the truly holy people I have known? What qualities of these people do I admire and remember?
How do I keep the memory of these people alive in my own life?
Have my views of death grown and changed as I mature and age?
Do I let a view of life beyond this life influence my priorities?
How do I keep the memory of a loved one alive? How do I want to be remembered by others? How does belief in God’s love affect my view of life and death?

To do:
Remember loved ones who have died by taking out pictures or telling stories about them. Consider a way that one person who has died touched your life and do something that reflects the person’s life.
Thank God for people who have been part of your life.
Call or visit someone who has recently experienced the loss of a loved one.

To pray: Hear Jesus say to you: “Rejoice and be glad. Blessed are you!"

Next week: 32nd Sunday in Ordinary Time: 1Kings 17:10-16; Hebrews 9: 24-28; Matthew 12: 38-44

Friday, October 23, 2009

"Need More Light?": Reflection for Sunday October 25, 2009; 30th Sunday in Ordinary Time

30th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Jeremiah 31: 7-9; Hebrews 5: 1-6; Mark 10: 46-52
Scripture for today can be found at http://www.usccb.org/nab

Although the time to “fall back” to Standard Time isn’t until next week, we’ve already experienced the decrease in light each day. Most of us almost wince at the thought of darkness that will continue to become part of our lives for the next few months. How much we miss the light!

God’s Word today reminds us of the need for light in many areas of our lives, especially those that are enveloped in darkness (Jeremiah, Mark). However, often one whose sight is impaired develops an ability to see beyond the physical; sometimes that person may see more clearly than the sighted person.
God’s Word today also reminds us that we all carry areas of blindness within us, especially in the ways that we view God, self, or others.
This Word then challenges us to turn toward Jesus so that we will not only see reality with new eyes but that we will then let that new awareness touch the way we live (Hebrews). It's all about putting the Word into practice!

To think about:
What do I usually look for and notice in others: goodness and talents or faults and failings?
How do I treat those who do not see things as I see them?
Do I always think that my view is the superior view?
What do I do when I notice judgmental, prejudicial or stereotypical views?
How many of my views are the views of Jesus?
How do I try to alleviate the blindness caused by poverty or lack of education?

To do:
Notice goodness, talents and abilities in yourself and in others; thank God for these gifts.
Speak up when prejudicial or stereotypical views are expressed.
Try to listen attentively to someone who cannot see life’s fullness because of loneliness or sadness.
Thank someone who has helped you or a loved one to see life with new/renewed vision.
Take a walk and notice the beauties of nature.
And finally, please let me know if you have read this blog and if it has brought you any “light”. I’m trying to decide if I should continue this. You can email me at lightlady09@gmail.com or leave a comment. Thanks!

To pray: “Lord, that I may see” or “Open my eyes to the wonder of this moment”.

Next week: Solemnity of All Saints: Revelation 7: 2-4, 9-14; 1John 3: 1-3; Matthew 5: 1-12

Friday, October 16, 2009

"Seeking the Spotlight":Reflection for October 18, 2009: 29th Sunday in Ordinary Time

29th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Isaiah 53: 10-11; Hebrews 4: 14-16; Mark 10: 35-45
Today's Scripture can be found at http:www.uscb.org/nab
Seeking the Spotlight

Images of well-known media personalities can flood our lives. Seeing people who “shine” and receive attention from others - even if only fo ra few minutes- can tend to affect one's attitudes and behavior.
While we may periodically yearn to be “in the spotlight”(Mark), God’s Word today reminds us of the significance of faithful attention to the quiet, unsung details our lives (Hebrews).
Our struggles, difficulties and sufferings may take on different appearances, and we may at times even feel overwhelmed by aspects of our lives (Isaiah).
Yet, God’s Word can strengthen us as we look away from the spotlight to live in service to others.

To think about:
How often do I seek the spotlight?
Am I faithful to my responsibilities even when I am not noticed?
Am I willing to serve others even when that service is not acknowledged?
Do I look for and acknowledge goodness and potential in others?
Do I see leadership as a chance to dominate others or to serve others?
Do I take time to thank those who serve others as volunteers?

To do: Thank someone who serves in a capacity that helps others – in church, school activities, sports or community activities.
Thank someone whose employment involves serving others in some capacity.
Do a “random act” of kindness or service for someone every day this week.
Serve someone in the wider human family by giving time to a local service organization. Perhaps your church bulletin contains ideas for involvement.

To pray: “To be your bread now, be your wine now, Lord, come and change us to be a sign of your love.”

Next week: 30th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Jeremiah 31: 7-9; Hebrews 5: 1-6; Mark 10: 46-52

Friday, October 9, 2009

"The Search for Happiness": Reflection for October 11, 2009, 28th Sunday in Ordinary Time

28th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Wisdom 7: 7-11; Hebrews 4:12-13; Mark 10: 17-30
Today's Scripture can be found at http://www.usccb.org/nab

Throughout history people have tried to satisfy the basic human quest for happiness and fulfillment in many ways. Increased material possessions, power, leisure or recreational activities have often been used to fulfill this quest. Indeed, the search continues as people seek new items.
Yet, as God’s Word today reminds us, somehow none of these items has ever brought lasting happiness (Mark). Human beings need something more (Wisdom), something that gives true life to one's inner spirit (Hebrews). True happiness comes with this wisdom, as one learns to value what is really important in life.
God’s Word challenges us to evaluate our expectations of happiness and to consider the ways that we seek to fulfill our longing for happiness. After that challenge, we face the challenge to make a change or two in our lives.

To think about:
Where do I experience fulfillment and happiness?
Do I and my family ever try to differentiate between “want” and “need”?
Have I tried to simplify my life by buying less or acquiring less?
Are there simple joys I fail to notice because I am already involved in some future moment?

To do: Grow in wisdom by “counting your blessings” as you are going to sleep. Have your child do this too.
Practice having less by giving money that you would have spent for yourself to a group that helps others.
Clean out one drawer or part of one closet and enjoy the “pleasure of less”. Listening to music or to an audiobook while you're doing this can make the task go faster!

To pray: “There is a longing in our hearts, O God, for you to reveal yourself to us.”

Next week: 29th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Isaiah 53: 10-11; Hebrews 4: 14-16; Mark 10: 35-45

Thursday, October 1, 2009

"Appreciating the People in Our Lives" : Reflection for October 4, 2009

27th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Genesis 2: 18-24; Hebrews 1: 1-4, 2: 5-12; Mark 10: 2-16
Today’s Scripture Readings can be found at http://www.usccb.org/nab

Appreciating the People in our Lives

How easy it often is to take the people in our lives for granted At times, in fact, we may not even notice someone’s good qualities until that person is no longer with us. At the same time, sharing the road of life with its joys and sorrows, drudgeries and delights, can sometimes be wearing!
While clearly reminding us today of our need for other people (Genesis), God’s Word also challenges us to notice how we value the people who are part of our lives (Mark).
Remembering that we are all children of God (Hebrew) can make a big difference in the way that we view people and treat them.

To think about:
What priority do I give to the people who are part of my life?
How might you respond if someone treated you the way that you treat another person? Do I treat others as children of God?
Do I brush past people because I am too self-focused?
Do I look beyond my immediate family to reach out to the wider human family?

To do:
Show appreciation for someone in your life through your words or actions.
Take time to picture someone you know as a child of God.
Look beyond your immediate family and reach out to someone in need.
Visit or call someone who does not have family members nearby, especially someone who is lonely or ill.
Ask God to help you see a person you may find difficult as God sees that person.

To pray: “We are one body in this one Lord.”

Next week: 28th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Wisdom 7: 7-11; Hebrews 4:12-13; Mark 10: 17-30

Saturday, September 26, 2009

"Seeing Goodness in Surprising Places": Reflection for September 27, 2009; 26th Sunday in Ordinary Time

26th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Numbers 11: 25-29; James 5: 1-6; Mark: 9: 38-48
Today’s Scripture can be found at http://www.usccb.org/nab

We’ve probably all been surprised at one time or another with a response or an action that was “out of the ordinary”. An unexpected kindness, a generous offer, an unselfish act that we did not expect can startle us, especially when this is done by someone for whom we may not have had much regard. Seeing and acknowledging goodness where we did not expect it can actually even disturb us because we may have conditioned ourselves to expect a different action!

God’s Word today challenges us both to look beyond our own views of who we think is capable of goodness (James) and to acknowledge goodness in our world (Numbers, Mark).
When, in the reading from Numbers, we hear that two men who were not present for all the "rites" were prohesying because God's Spirit was speaking through them, we might be a bit surprised too!
And when we hear the disciples complaining to Jesus about the good actions of someone "outside the group", we quickly see what Jesus considers important.
(Mark)

This week I'll try to remember that God's Word challenges me to notice and affirm goodness wherever I see it! God's Spirit is alive!


To think about:
Do I stereotype people based on outward appearance, ethnicity, or other external factors?
Do I impute ulterior motives or belittle efforts made by some people?
Do I look for opportunities to “catch them doing good”, acknowledging and affirming goodness when I see it?


To do: Affirm your child’s efforts to help, co-operate, share, or establish a good habit.
Thank someone whose goodness touched your life.
Congratulate someone who has been acknowledged or honored.
Notice small gestures of kindness in your daily life.


To pray: “Open our eyes to the wonder of this moment…”


Next week: 27th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Genesis 2: 18-24; Hebrews 1: 1-4, 2: 5-12; Mark 10: 2-16

Friday, September 18, 2009

"Who's First?? Who's Best??" Reflection for Sunday, September 20, 2009, 25th SUnday in Ordinary Time

25th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Wisdom 2:12-20; James 3: 16-4:3; Mark 9: 30-37
Scripture for today can be found at http://www.usccb.org/nab


Society acknowledges greatness in many different ways, depending on the qualities that form the basis for consideration. Political leadership, achievement in sports or entertainment, the status of one's job or one's family can all be a basis for a perception of "greatness". And, as we know, "greatness” in one area of life certainly does not automatically mean “greatness” in another area.

God’s Word today reminds us that God’s standards for greatness fly in the face of many cultural standards (James, Mark).
When we hear James' reminder that "wisdom is pure, peaceable, gentle and compliant", we might shake our heads in amazement!
And picturing the all-too-true-to-life scene of the disciples with their all-too-human "discussion" of "one-upmanship": "I'm greater than you are!!" makes the point even clearer. Ah, I can hear it now!
What does Jesus do? He shows this misguided group a child as an example of greatness!

As God's Word certainly challenges us to examine our standards for measuring greatness this week, we are called to notice what our lives say about our values.

To think about:
How do I and my family define “greatness”?
Who are some people I/we consider truly great? Why?
What qualities do I encourage my child to develop?
Do I take time to notice small acts of kindness, consideration, and helpfulness- or do I usually notice only the most prominent or ostentatious?

To do:
Speak to someone you might usually ignore, someone who quietly does a job or fulfills a responsibility.
Congratulate someone on an accomplishment.
Notice small acts of gentleness, kindness, peacefulness, and service in your child or in others.

To pray: “What you do to the least of my people, you do to me.”

Next week: 26th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Numbers 11: 25-29; James 5: 1-6; Mark: 9: 38-48

Thursday, September 10, 2009

Say It or Do It? Reflection for September 13, 2009: 24th Sunday in Ordinary Time

24th Sunday in Ordinary Time Isaiah 50:5-9; James 2:14 -18; Mark 8: 27-35
Today’s Scripture can be found at http:/www.usccb.org/nab




Over the years I've found that sometimes the Word of God as found in the Sunday Scriptures can be hard to understand! There have been times when I've really had to ponder the Scripture to find a key that opened a door to give some insight for my life. But this week's Scripture speaks quite plainly and once again reminds us of that simple reality that "actions speak louder than words."



While words can and do have great impact, a person's action can undo volumes of words. Anyone who interacts with others knows this to be true. Words, like faith, may be wonderful, but as James reminds us in his letter, "faith without works is dead"!



However, putting faith into action is not easy! Many times we are inconvenienced or harried; sometimes we have to find the courage to stand for our convictions or beliefs. Certainly Jesus' comments as found in Mark remind us that putting our faith into action does involve denying ourselves. And Isaiah also reaffirms the difficulties that can be experienced when one tries to put faith into action.

While we cannot do this on our own, we can be strengthened by God's Presence as we continue to try to "put our money where our mouth is" and live our faith in everyday life.


To think about:
Do I often give advice and think about how others should be living?
Do I think of faith as a power- source for my life?
How willing am I to try to "be the change I want to see"?
In what specific relationship or life situation might I put faith into action this week?

To do:
Let faith touch the way that you use your time, talent or treasure this week through at least one action every day. Ask God to strengthen you so that you take this step gracefully! (You might even put a small mark on the calendar each day as you do this as a reminder of how you want to grow as a follower of Jesus!)
Live the behavior that you want to see in others in a relationship or a life situation.

To pray: "Make me a channel of your peace" can help us as we move from prayer to action.

Next week: 25th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Wisdom 2:12, 17-20; James 3: 16 - 4:3; Mark 9: 30-37

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

Planting Seeds of Hope: September 6, 2009: 23rd Sunday in Ordinary Time

Isaiah 35: 4-7; James 2: 1-5; Mark 7: 31-37

Today's Scripture readings can be found at http://www.usccb.org/nab

Fear is a very powerful force that can affect individuals, families, and communities from local levels through international levels. Fear can influence one’s approach to others; it can change thoughts and actions. Fear can blind us to possibilities, keep us from making changes, and almost paralyze us.

Fear is like a weed that can take over a garden. It needs to be replaced with something positive and life-giving in order to have something new grow.

God’s Word today reminds that God helps us move beyond fear (Isaiah) to new possibilities and realities (James, Mark). God's Word helps us envision the promise of seeing with new vision, walking in new paths, finding life in formerly barren places, and even leaping with joy!

This week as many people bring summer to a close with Labor Day celebrations, we know that many others face difficult times.

And as we commemorate the anniversary of the tragedy of 9/11, we also acknowledge the importance of individuals in our lives.

Yet we can take God's Word to heart as we ask God to help us continue to plant seeds of hope that will move us beyond fear to live as channels of God’s love.

To think about:
How does fear affect my life, my family’s life?
How much has fear affected the way I think about and treat people?
Does fear affect my decisions?
Am I afraid to change or take reasonable risks because of fear of failure? Do I fear looking bad in the opinion of others?
Has fear stopped me from speaking or acting for justice?
Has fear stopped me from admitting mistakes or changing my pattern of behavior?

To do:
Speak that word of apology that you’ve been afraid to say.
Reach out a hand of love to someone you’ve been avoiding.
Take the risk of doing without something; plant a seed of hope by giving that money to those in need.
Encourage another's hopes and dreams.
Thank someone who plants seeds of hope by giving time and energy to enable others to accomplish new things.
Encourage your child to reach out to a child whom others may ignore or treat unfairly.

To pray: “Make me a channel of your peace”.

Next week: 24th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Isaiah 50: 5-9; James 2: 14-18; Mark 8: 27-35

Thursday, August 27, 2009

All "Fluff" and No "Stuff"? Reflection for Sunday, August 30, 2009 22nd Sunday in Ordinary Time

Deuteronomy 4: 1-8; James 1: 17 -18, 21b-22, 27 ( This is really being selective); Mark 7: 1-8, 14-15, 21-23 (See above comment!)



Scripture for today's readings can be found at http://www.usccb.org.nab/




"You can't judge a book by its cover" is an old adage that, like many old adages, contains a great deal of truth. Most of us can probably think of a time when we've been surprised by someone's actions that were quite contrary - for better or for worse - to our expectations. Indeed, things might not have been what they appeared to be; our judgement was definitely inaccurate!





God's Word today reminds us of this truth and also challenges us to have the "cover" of our own "life's book" match the content of that book. I thought of this as I entitled this week's reflection, for sometimes we all can be a bit like cotton-candy: all "fluff" and no "stuff".



In the Letter of James the simple phrase "Be doers of the Word and not hearers only, deluding yourselves"(22) comes right to the point! But the amazing , almost jaw- dropping words of accusation in Mark that are addressed to the Pharisees leave no room for doubt that appearances count for nothing with Jesus. What is within makes the difference in how one lives!



So once again God's Word calls us to align our inner spirit with God's Spirit and then to put that Spirit into action in our everyday lives.



To Think About:



Am I generally judgmental or accepting of people?



Do I make judgments based on exterior elements like appearances, housing, clothing, job titles?



Am I or my family overly concerned about outward appearances?



Do I "put my money where my mouth is", having my actions match my words?



To Do:


Notice your prejudices and the reasons that you might prejudge someone. Awareness is a good first step toward change.


Talk to someone you might usually ignore; even a "Good Morning" or a "Thanks" can be good.


Encourage your child to see beyond stereotypes, even as you notice your own language about people.


Look for ways to contribute to a greater cause where you may meet different people.


To Pray: "We will walk with each other.. we will work with each other...: ( "They'll Know We Are Christians" )


Next week: 23rd Sunday in Ordinary Time: Isaiah 35: 4 - 7a; James 2: 1-5; Mark 7: 31-37

Thursday, August 20, 2009

What Is Your Choice? Reflection for Sunday, August 23, 2009, 21st Sunday in Ordinary Time

Joshua 24: 1-18 (bits and pieces of the section);Ephesians 5 : 21 - 32 or (I hope!) Ephesians 5: 2, 25 -32; John 6: 60 - 69


Scripture for today's readings can be found at www.usccb.org/nab.


The poet Robert Frost wrote of the significance of choices: "Two roads diverged in a yellow wood...I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference" ("The Road Not Taken").

Indeed, some choices seem to have been ones that have "made all the difference" in our lives, for they have provided the framework and direction for many of our life's details.

God's Word today reminds us of the significance of our choices and the way that these choices touch our lives.

In the first reading from the Book of Joshua, we hear of the ancient Israelites choosing to follow the One God.
In the passage from John's Gospel, we hear of those who chose to leave Jesus and those who chose to stay with Him.
And in the Letter to the Ephesians we hear of the significance of our relationships, particularly the relationship between spouses. (Hopefully most lectors will proclaim the shorter version, since the longer version carries the infamous admonition "wives be subject to your husbands" - a line that has certainly provided a framework for abuse over the years.)

God's Word today can strengthen us as we become more aware of our everyday choices and try to let those choices influence the way that we live.

To Think About:

What have been some significant choices I have made on my life's road?

What influences my choices: media, peers, society's expectations, the message of Jesus?

Do I give my child the opportunity to make age-appropriate choices?

Do I try to listen to God's presence within me when I make a choice or ask for God's guidance?

Do I trust that God can make something good come from a choice that I have made, even one that I regret?

To Do:

Choose a relationship or a situation where you can choose to act as one who is trying to follow Jesus.

Notice how everyday choices in the way that you use your time, talents and energy shape your life.

Give your child the opportunity to make age-appropriate choices, and let your child experience some of the natural consequences that follow some choices.

Ask God to guide you in a choice that you are making or a situation that you are experiencing.

To Pray: "Open my ears, Lord, help me to hear Your voice; open my heart,Lord,help me to love."

Next week: 22nd Sunday in Ordinary Time: Deuteronomy 4: 1-8; James 1: 17-18, 21-27; Mark 7: 1-23

Saturday, August 15, 2009

How Wise Are You? Reflection for Sunday, August 16, 2009: 20th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Proverbs 9: 1-6; Ephesians 5: 15-20; John 6: 51-58
Scripture can be found at www.usccb.org/nab

There can a big difference between being wise and being smart. We may kow people who are intelligent and well-versed in some area of expertise. We may,in fact, consider ourselves among them.
We may also know some very smart people who are not too wise, whose lives show that they are actually very foolish. Media seems to be flooded with stories of some of these people. Of course, there may have been times when we had to admit that we, too, were among this number!
Unlike knowledge, one does not learn wisdom by taking a course or reading a book, though these actions may help one become wiser. And while one may hope that a person become wiser with age, this is not always the case!
Wise people often see life in unexpected ways, and sometimes seeing beyond the obvious and valuing what others may consider insignificant or unimportant.
God's Word today reminds us to consider how we view life and to see how our view compares with God's view (Proverbs, John). This Word then calls us to live our values in everyday life (Ephesians) by making wise choices that can help others.
Next week: 21st Sunday in Ordinary Time: Joshua 24: 1-18; Ephesians 5: 21-32; John 6: 60-69

Friday, August 7, 2009

Pauses That Refresh and Renew: Reflection for August 9, 2009

Pauses That Refresh and Renew: Reflection for 19TH Sunday in Ordinary Time: 1Kings 19:4-8; Ephesians 4:30-5:2; John 6: 41-51

Scripture can be found at www.usccb.org/nab



We may all have had times when it seemed that there was no time for rest because of situations in our lives. In addition to the actual time involved at these times, most of us probably carried the situation into the rest of our lives too. The burdens then became even heavier!



In reflecting on God's Word for today, I thought of the importance of taking time to find daily "R&R". The Elijah story certainly can "hit home" for many who have experienced difficulties. We may even have said as Elijah did, "This is enough, O Lord". We feel that we cannot continue on our own.

In fact, at these times we may experence the very same draining emotions that are mentioned in Ephesians: "bitterness, fury, anger, shouting."

Jesus reminds us of the importance of believing in God's Presence with us, the Bread of Life(John). This belief can make a difference in our daily lives, helping us move through difficulites to a renewed vision of a situation and strengthening us to continue our life's walk. As we are strengthened and renewed, we can then reach out to others who are experiencing difficulties in their own journey.

To Think About: Do I increase the size of my burdens by continuing to talk about them, worry about them, or remember them?
Have I tried to turn over my burdens to God - not just once a day, but whenever they surface? Do I try to find moments of peace and connection to God by breathing slowly and by remembering that I am not alone?
Do I encourage my child to find ways to deal with problems in practical ways?
Do I remember to affirm my own efforts to move toward greater awareness as I change my attitude or behavior?
Have I ever noticed the difference that a "Thank You" or a word of appreciation can make in
helping strengthen someone or dispel some "bitterness, anger, fury, shouting"?
Do I "taste and see the goodness of the Lord" (Psalm 34:1) in my daily life? Can it make a difference if I do "taste and see"?

To Do: Notice something good every day and then see how often you can notice something good in yourself, in another, in the world. This one action can make a difference in our awareness and in our behavior.

To Pray: "Taste and see the goodness of the Lord".

Next Week: 20th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Proverbs 9: 1-6; Ephesians 5: 15-20; John 6: 51-58

A Note from Lucille: I have reflections that I've compiled over the years that I had planned to edit for use on this blog. However, I seem to have lost the file when our computer died. I hope I find it soon!

Friday, July 31, 2009

Simplifying Unwillingly Reflection for August 2, 2009 18th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Simplifying Willingly or Unwillingly: Exodus 16: 2-15; Ephesians 4: 20-24; John 6: 24-35

Scripture can be found at www.usccb.org/nab.

In the past year or two many people have faced obstacles and challenges that they had not anticipated. As the economic downturn touched more people and impacted family life, people were forced to make changes in many areas of their lives. This necessity to choose, to do without, or to find alternatives even opened some people's eyes to the differences between "need" and "want". As people simplified, many began to see that some accustomed areas of their lives were not really helpful or necessary. Somehow many simple elements of life became more important!
God's Word today reminds us of this aspect of human nature. The grumbling of the Israelites (Exodus) might sound a bit like us when things don't go as we had anticipated. Yet, as God's Word today reminds us, we do have many blessings in our lives.
This awareness of our everyday blessings can have a transforming effect (Ephesians), that helps us be more aware of the gifts that we already have. Indeed, an "attitude of gratitude" even makes a difference physically! Transformation can occur in many ways!
As we realize that we do have many blessings, we too will be more satisfied (John). In turn, we can even become a blessing to others!

To think about:
What is my usual reaction when things don't go my way?
Do I usually look for "more" and thus miss seeing the gifts in my life?
Have I tried developing an "attitude of gratitude" mindset?
Will simplifying some area of my life help me be more satisfied?

To do:
Try the "Gratitude Attitude" a few times a day.
Involve your family in making choices that affect them. For instance, children can learn to help with meals instead of going to a restaurant.
Commend your child when (s)he finds new ways to reuse instead of buying new.
Go through those closets and figure out what cloting combinatins can be reworked instead of buying more.
Try using some saved money to help those who do not have life's essentials.

To pray: Hear Jesus saying to you, "I am Bread for your life." (John)

Next week: 19th Sunday in Ordinary Time: 1Kings 19: 4-8; Ephesians 4: 30 - 5:2; John 6: 41-51


Thursday, July 23, 2009

A Little Goes A Long Way: Reflection for July 26, 2009: 17th Sunday in Ordinary Time:

2Kings 4:42-44; Ephesians 4:1-6; John 6:1-15
Scripture for today can be found at www.usccb.org/nab.

A Little Goes a Long Way

Have you ever faced a task that initially seemed insurmountable and overwhelming? Perhaps it was a “personal improvement project”, or a task at home, school or work. As almost everyone who has faced a situation like this may have learned, one helpful hint is to use small steps, and to concentrate on one area at a time. Although the improvement or change may not be noticeable at first, small, incremental changes begin to add up. One day we do notice a change!

Nature shows us many examples of this “small difference”. New streams or brooks develop, land erodes or increases, and amazing changes occur in rock formations when a few drops of water hit the surface of that rock for many years.

Relationships and behaviors can follow the same pattern. Small changes can make a difference.

How well God’s Word today reminds us of the change that God can make in our lives when we bring even our small efforts to God and try to help others (Kings, John). Like the young boy's few barley loaves or small fish, our contribution might seem quite insignificant. Perhaps the change that we hope to see in ourselves or in our world even seems out of reach (Ephesians).

God’s Word today can encourage us to continue our small, seemingly insignificant, efforts in our daily life, knowing that God can make a difference with our small efforts!

To think about:
Do I look for the results of my actions, or am I willing to contribute to the larger good without fanfare and notice?
Do I refuse to become involved in some efforts that try to make a difference because the problem is just too big or overwhelming?
Do I express appreciation for small gestures of kindness, love, and caring (Ephesians)?
Do I take time to notice my blessings, my family’s blessings?
Do I share my blessings and giftedness with others?
Do I notice giftedness in others, or do I usually feel threatened by another’s giftedness?

To do:
Take the first step in a project that seems overwhelming and develop a plan to take a step each day.
Express appreciation for small gestures of kindness, care, and love that you receive.
Notice your child’s efforts to co-operate, share, or be patient.
Thank God for your many blessings, especially noting small, usually unnoticed blessings.
Give money that you would spend on a new item of clothing, extra entertainment, or another restaurant meal to an organization that provides necessities of food, water, or housing for others.
Be more aware of the food you and your family eat, noticing taste, color, and fragrance.

To pray: “One bread, one body…And we, though many, throughout the earth, we are one body in this one Lord”

Next week: 18th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Exodus 16: 2-15; Ephesians 4: 17-24; John 24-35

Thursday, July 16, 2009

Life’s Connections : Reflection for July 19, 2009

16th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Jeremiah 23: 1-6; Ephesians 2: 13-18; Mark 6: 30-34

Scripture for today can be found at www.usccb.org/nab.

It is amazing how often small, sometimes seemingly insignificant, interactions can have a “ripple” effect and can stay with us for a while. In fact stories abound about wonderful moments that made a great difference in a person’s life. I know that I’ve received many such stories that circulate via mail. And as we continue to learn each day, we are amazingly connected.

God’s Word today can speak to us of this connection we have to God and to each other.
Unfortunately some people do have a negative influence; they “mislead and scatter” those to whom they are connected (Jeremiah). But this Word also tells us that God’s desire is to “gather… to reconcile… to make peace” (Ephesians).

In our own lives, particularly in the summertime, we might find ourselves interacting with others in ways that are different from our interactions at other times of the year. Like Jesus and his friends, we might find ourselves “in the boat” or involved in community projects of some kind (Mark)

This week we can use God’s Word to remember our connection with God who is present to strengthen us and nourish us (Psalm 23- Responsorial Psalm), and we can remember that we continue God’s work in our everyday lives in our interactions of caring for others, nourishing them in different ways, and trying to bring peace.


To think about: When have I experienced a sense of connection with a group or a community?
Do I have a connection with family and community? Do I encourage efforts to build community?

Do I know anyone who feels like a "stranger or alien" (Ephesians)? How do I try to include others in groups?

Has this summer become such a busy time that I and my family have been "coming and going… with no leisure even to eat" (Mark)? Do we need to make some changes in our schedules in order to appreciate each other and enjoy each other's company? Or do we need to move beyond the limits of our own family activity to become involved in a more inclusive community activity?

To do: Participate in a community endeavor and encourage those who give their time, talent and energies to such endeavors. Affirm your child's efforts to include someone new in his or her group.

Become involved with your child in an outreach effort to help others by visiting someone who is lonely, or by helping to feed someone who is hungry; community possibilities abound.

Take out family photos and reacquaint your child with family ancestors, those who were “shepherds”, who care for others and brought joy.

Do an internet search for information about some of the saints, especially those who might have a special meaning for someone in the family. A good resource site is http://www.findinggod.org/., Loyola Publication’s website.

To pray: "We, though many, throughout the earth - we are one Body in this one Lord.”

Next week: 17th Sunday in Ordinary Time: 2Kings 4:42-44; Ephesians 4:1-6; John 6:1-15

Thursday, July 9, 2009

Looking for a Job?:Reflection for July 12, 2009

15th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Amos 7: 12-15; Ephesians 1: 3-14; Mark 6: 14-19
Scripture for today can be found at www.usccb.org/nab.


Regardless of the condition of the job market, the market for Christians is always booming. In fact, Jesus has already selected each of us for a job. It’s up to us to respond and either start or continue working for Jesus.
While we may not think that we are well qualified or that we are “the right candidate” for the position, Jesus has other ideas. In fact, as God’s Word tells us today, God has chosen many people who did not think that they were qualified (Amos, Mark). However, God’s Word also shows us that God has chosen us (Ephesians).
Each of us, with our individual talents and abilities, strengths and weaknesses, likes and dislikes, is challenged and strengthened to respond to the job offer that God has given us: to bring the Good News of God’s Love to others.

To think about: How would I rate my “job performance” as a disciple? How do I let Jesus’ values influence the way my family and I live? If people were arrested for being followers of Jesus, what evidence could be used for or against me?
Does my life show that I consider discipleship to be a blessing or a burden? Who are some people who have positively influenced my view of lived discipleship?
Can I bring an awareness of being called and sent by God to one aspect of my daily life: the way I interact with someone, use my time, or spend money?

To do: Think “WWJD?” (What Would Jesus Do?) when making a decision or evaluating a situation this week. Look at your talents, abilities, and interests, and notice how you are already doing God’s work as a disciple.
Give your child opportunities to help and serve others by visiting an elderly neighbor or relative, playing with a younger child, or being involved in a community project.
Before going to sleep, thank God for the opportunities you had that day to be Jesus’ voice, hands, and feet.
Read a book or view a video of someone you consider to be a disciple; encourage your child to read about a Christian hero or heroine.

To pray: “I will go, Lord, if you lead me. I will hold your people in my heart.”

Next week: 16th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Jeremiah 23: 1-6; Ephesians 2: 13-18; Mark 6: 30-34

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Can You Hear Me Now?: Reflection for July 5, 2009: 14th Sunday in Ordinary Time:

Ezekiel 2:1-5; 2 Corinthians 12:2-10; Mark 6:1-6
Scripture Passages for today can be found at www.usccb.org/nab


Can You Hear Me Now?

As we’ve all probably experienced, sometimes cell phones just do not function properly. For some reason – or for a variety of reasons- the voice just doesn’t come through. In order to receive the message clearly, the speaker or the recipient needs to make some sort of adjustment. It certainly is a frustrating experience when that other voice can’t be heard. At times the transmission may be compromised; at other times there may be too much noise and too many distractions to pay attention and hear clearly.
God’s Word today seems to remind us of the reality of an inner voice and of the importance of listening to that voice (Ezekiel, Mark). In addition, this Word shows us some of the factors that can prevent us from hearing a message (Mark).
We, in turn, are challenged to be aware of the way we listen to God’s Voice in our lives, and of the way we respond to that Voice in our life and in the lives of others.


To think about: Do I believe that God is present in my life? Do I want to hear God in my life? Do I show that I value God’s presence in my life through my values and the way I use my time?
Am I often so preoccupied with my own concerns, anxieties, or regrets that I am not even aware of the present moment, the place where God is?
Do I try to listen to others, or do I usually have my own response prepared? How can I be a better listener? Do I, like Jesus’ townspeople, tend to dismiss some truths because of the person who is speaking?


To do: At least once a day try to stay in the present moment in order to hear the Voice of God present in your own heart and mind, in the people or events of your life. Spend a few quiet moments in the morning or evening aware of God’s love and presence; it can help “improve the connection”!
Listen attentively to someone you usually ignore or dismiss; try to summarize what they are saying. Commend your child for good listening when you see it.
Minimize the noise in your life by setting limits on the amount of time for TV and computer… and then do the same for yourself!
Go for a quiet walk and notice the stars and the sounds of nature. Play a “Freeze” game with your child by being quiet for a moment and noticing sounds around you.


To pray: Hear God say to you, “I will come to you in the silence; I will lift you from your fear. You will hear my voice, I claim you as my choice. Be still and know I am here.” (“You Are Mine”)


Next week: 15th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Amos 7: 12-15; Ephesians 1: 3-14; Mark 6: 14-19

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

A Touch of Life: Scripture for June 28, 2009

Scripture for Sunday, June 28, 2009: 13th Sunday in Ordinary Time:

Wisdom 1:13-15, 2:23-24; 2 Corinthians 9: 13-15; Mark 5: 21-43

A Touch of Life

The children's classic Stone Soup tells the story of a town that had no food until someone put a large pot in the center of town and told people to bring just one thing to add to the soup. Gradually wonderful soup emerged and everyone in the town was fed.
Sometimes life is like this story of soup; at times we each can give only a small amount to a situation to help make a difference and possibly help bring about change. At times we may even wonder if our small contribution makes any difference. This, however, can be a self-defeating attitude that actually keeps someone from making a difference or being part of a larger good endeavor.

God's Word today encourages us and reminds us of our call to reach out and touch the lives of others. Even Jesus didn't heal everyone in every town in which he ministered. Yet Jesus certainly made a difference! He often healed by touching the person or simply holding that person's hand as we see in the story found in Mark's Gospel.

As God's Word encourages, strengthens, and renews us today, this Word also challenges us to use our own limited time, talent and treasure in our everyday lives to touch the lives of others. Sometimes even the slighest gesture or word cahelp bring life to another.

To think about: Who are some people who have touched my life in some way through their joy, compassion, understanding or patience? Who touches my life in practical, daily ways through their work or their generosity?

Do I have realistic expectations of myself and others or do I have expectations based on TV programs where everything is resolved in a limited amount of time? Do any of my relationships need help or a touch of healing? What personal gift or talent can I bring to that relationship?

How are Jesus and the church community a source of strength, help or healing for me and my family? Is there something I can do to help make this church community a sign of Jesus' love and healing?

To do: Thank someone who has helped you when you were in need. Do something each day, regardless of how small or insignificant it may seem, to touch someone's life with kindness, gentleness or patience.

Let Jesus’ relationship with you influence one way that you and your family use your time, talent, or treasure this week by showing love, care, or concern for others. Thank God for your gifts and talents. Parents can try to affirm the gifts and talents they notice in their child: gifts like kindness, gentleness,a sense of humor, caring for others, or co-operation.

To pray: “We are companions on the journey, breaking bread and sharing life; and in the love we bear is the hope we share for we believe in the love of our God” (“Companions on the Journey” by Carey Landry)

Next week:14th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Ezekiel 2:2-5; 2 Corinthians 12:7-10; Mark 6:1-6

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

An Anchor In the Midst of Life's Storms

12th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Job 38: 1-11; 2Corinthians 5: 14-17; Mark 4: 35-41

At one time or another we have all experienced difficult times. At such times we may have felt that life's storms were ready to swamp the boat of our lives. During these times we too may have experienced some of the same emotions that Jesus’ friends experienced; we too may have felt like we were almost perishing (Mark). Dread, anxiety and frantic activity may have beset us in the midst of these storms, and we may have even felt abandoned by God (Mark).

God's Word today reminds us that we are not alone as we continue to move our small ships through life's sometimes stormy seas; for, like the apostles in the boat, Jesus is right here with us. This life-giving Word, in turn, also challenges us to help others during their own difficult, stormy times.

This message can take of special meaning today as we honor fathers who have been "an anchor" during storms and have helped their children throughout life.

To Think About: How do I usually react to storms in my life; do I turn to God as a first or last resort? Who has helped me or my family during stormy, difficult times? How do I respond to someone who is experiencing a storm? What do I do to experience God's peace during the day? Am I "addicted" to news, conflicts, or problems that do not need to be in my life? Do I create unnecessary storms in my relationships because of my own unrealistic expectations? Do I prolong storms and difficulties by complaining but not doing anything?

To Do: Take time to remember ways that your father provided guidance (even when you might not have wanted it!) and ways that your father helped you through some storms in your life. Turn to God with thanksgiving each day so that you are aware of God's presence in your life. Picture yourself handing over your fear and worry to Jesus. Change a way of dealing with a situation that troubles you; ask help from someone you trust - and ask God's help and direction.

To Pray: Hear Jesus saying to you, "Peace….Why are you afraid?" Or pray "The Serenity Prayer": "God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference."

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Next Week: 13th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Wisdom 1: 13 - 15, 2: 23- 24; 2Corinthians 9: 13-15; Mark 5: 21-43