Scripture in Everyday Life

"What's Worth Treasuring?": Reflection for September 26, 2010; 26th Sunday in Ordinary Time

2010-09-25T18:50:00.011-04:00

Today's Scripture can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

It seems that since earliest times people have had a sense of what comprises "the good life" as promoted by trends of their day. (See today's readings from Amos and Luke to see examples.) Yet in the end, many of these values are mere momentary pleasures.
As God's Word reminds us again today, life as we know it will end someday. Now is the time to look at the ways that we spend our time, talent, and treasure; now is the time to see how meanigful our priorites are.
"Godliness, faith, love, patience and gentleness" as suggested in the Letter to Timothy are good beginnings as we evaluate the direction of our lives.

To think about: Consider where and how you spend your time, talent and energy. Do you find this meaningful for you? Can you do one thing to change your focus?

To do: Find one way to put "faith, love, patience or gentleness" into practice each day.

To pray: "Make us your own.. now is the time"

"Treasures All Around": Reflection for Sept 19, 2010; 25th Sunday in Ordinary Time

2010-09-18T18:59:00.007-04:00

Today's Scripture can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

It sometimes seems that we human beings need "wake up calls" in order to prioritize and value what is really most important in life. Yes, life is fragile and fleeting. An old proverb states' "You can't take it with you."

God's Word today reminds us of this same lesson. The ways that we invest and use our time, talent, love and energy shows where our values are.

Think and Do: Be more aware of how you live; try to live with awareness of what you are doing.
Try making one small change that can help you live in the present moment more meaningfully.
Notice the gifts of life that really matter to you and to others.

Pray: "Open my eyes, Lord, help me to see".

"Seeds of Forgiveness": Reflection for September 12, 2010, 24th Sunday in Ordinary Time

2010-09-10T20:12:00.007-04:00

Today's Scripture can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

Forgiveness is essential for a meaningful life. Medical studies have even shown that lack of forgiveness can make a difference in one's health.
"Refusing to forgive is like swallowing poison and hoping that the other person dies" aptly describes one effect of a lack of forgiveness; it poisons us.
God's Word today shows us reminders of forgiveness: God forgives the Chosen People; Paul experiences forgiveness; the Father welcomes home his prodigal son.
As we commemorate the 9th Anniversary of the tragedy of September 11 this weekend and remember those who died on that day, God's Word calls us to appreciate life with all its fragility and to find ways to incorporate forgiveness into our everyday lives.

We can remember when we find forgiveness difficult, that Jesus prayed "Father, (You) forgive them.." on the cross. We can do the same, asking God to forgive when we are unable to do so.

"Really Wise": Reflection for Sept. 5, 2010, 23rd Sunday in Ordinary Time

2010-09-04T16:09:00.006-04:00

Today's Scripture can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

Decisons, decisions, decisions.. life is full of them. Some are almost spontaneous; some require thought, consideration, and true wisdom.

God's Word today reminds us that we need to be aware of our decisions and seek God's help in making decisions. Rather than relying on ourselves or on others who may know no more than we do, we need to turn to God and to people we trust as we make some decisions.

Of course, we can also learn from our mistakes. So, as God's Word reminds us, we can continue to learn.

As another school year begins, we can also pray for young people to grow in true wisdom.

"Broadening Our Vision": Reflection for August 22,2010, 21st Sunday in Ordinary Time

2010-08-20T15:54:00.008-04:00

Today's Scripture can be read at www.uscb.org/nab

Some people seem to delight in determining the "in" group and the "out" group. To some extent, people may use the same idea in viewing the way that God treats human beings. Without getting into political implications, I'll just stay with a few reflections or ideas on how today's Scripture can relate to everyday life.

Sometimes people may think in terms of entitlement to God's love as something earned for faithful observance of certain rules and practices, God's Word today reminds us that God gathers people of all nations and all tongues (Isaiah). It may be easy to take pride in observance of certain laws (Luke) and to look with disdain on those who do not live as we do or as we think that they should.
However, judging people and comparing oneself to others can keep one from experiencing the "peacefulness" and "healing" to which the writer of the Letter to the Hebrews refers.

We need to remind ourselves that all people are members of God's Family. Then we need to find ways to put that realization into practice.

This week one thing I will try to do is to be more aware of the way that I might classify or judge people. Perhaps race or ethnicity affects me more than I might realize.
I will also try to reach out in some way to people I might usually ignore.

"Looking for a Guide?": Reflection for the Feast of the Assumption, August 15, 2010

2010-08-10T18:35:00.003-04:00

Today's Scripture : Revelation 12: 1-6; 1 Corinthians 15: 20-27; Luke 1: 39-56 can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

When traveling to new or unfamiliar places, people often hire guides for the trip. Not only will a guide help a traveler reach the desired destination, a guide may also help with some the difficulties of the trip.
On life’s journey most people have looked to others at one time or another for some guidance or direction. Among the many guides along the way, Mary has, since early Christian times, been seen as one who can show us how to live with awareness of life’s destiny (1 Corinthians).
The Feast of Mary’s Assumption, established by Pope Pius XII in 1950, reaffirms that Mary is a guide for all who seek to live in relation to God and find meaningful ways to bring God’s Presence to others.
Mary can help us with the “dragons” in our lives (Revelation), the elements that cause us to forget our identity and our destiny.
In our everyday life, we too have the opportunity to make a difference through the ways that, like Mary, we use our time, talents and treasure (Luke).

To think about: In what direction is my life heading?
Are there some changes I need to make in order to remember my final destination? Who are some “guides”, models of lived faith, for me and for my family?
What are some of the “dragons” of today’s society that I think affect people’s lives?
How do I and my family try to make a difference with the reality of these “dragons”?
To whom have I tried to bring joy this week?
How do I, like Mary, work to help the poor or oppressed?

To do: Take some quiet time – even a few minutes- and evaluate the direction in which you see your life going. Then decide on one small change you can make to bring deeper awareness to your life.
Write your own Magnificat, your prayer of praise and thanks for all the blessings of your life. Take a stand against one of today’s “dragons”, especially those that affect the weak or powerless. Use your time, talent, or treasure with awareness of others.

To pray: “My spirit rejoices in God.”(Luke)

"How's Your Portfolio?": Reflection for August 8, 2010, 19th Sunday in Ordinary Time

2010-08-07T13:17:00.010-04:00

Today's Scripture can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

Financial investing involves decisions, as well as awareness of risks, goals, dividends and expected returns. Experienced investors know that short-term rewards do not last forever, and that long-term goals can take to show a good return.
God's Word today reminds us of the need to invest our lives - our time, energy, passion, and abilities- for a meaningful return! Both Abraham and the early hebrews invested their lives in God's promises. They know that God was with them on their life journey.
Jesus' words to "provide money bags that do not wear out" and the reminder that "Where your treasure is, there is your heart also" (Luke) challenge us to consider what is important to each of us as we invest our everyday lives.
Pray: "What you do to the least of my people, you do to Me" as you invest your time and energy this week.

"A Wake-Up Call": Reflection for 18th Sunday in Ordinary Time, August 1, 2010

2010-07-30T15:44:00.010-04:00

Today's Scripture can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

As we move through life, we all encounter various "wake-up calls" that force us to evaluate our priorities and to realize deeper realites about life. Even a very elderly person will say that life is brief; this realization of life's briefness and fragility can help a person put "first things first" as one evaluates personal accomplishments and values.
God's Word shouts out this not-so-welcome reminder this week as we hear the "all is vanity" (Ecclesiastes) and we hear of the plans that are not fulfilled because of death (Luke). While this message is not easy to hear, it is a reality.
As Paul reminds us (Colossians) we are challenged to let God's love influence our perspective and our priorities.
This week we might want to think of what is important in our lives and how significant some of our actions actually are.

"Up Close and Personal": Reflection for July 25, 2010, 17th Sunday in Ordinary Time

2010-07-22T13:00:00.013-04:00

Today's Scripture can be read at www.ussccb.org/nab

It's true that it's easier to "be yourself" around people who convey a sense of acceptance and openness. We do not have to wear "masks" because we know that this person accepts us as we are.
God's Word today reminds us that we can be totally open in our relationship with God. As we get glimpses into Abraham's and Jesus' intimate moments with God (Genesis, Luke), we see that we too can be open and intimate with God.

Abraham is just so amazingly honest in his approach to God. Forget the fancy words, the right formula, the attitude of awe; Abraham knows that God is with him and already knows his heart and mind. He knows that God accepts him as he is; he has walked hand-in-hand with God.

Jesus too tells his followers that God is intimate with them, for Jesus tells his followers to pray using the intimate, childlike word "Abba" ("Da-da") instead of the formal word "Abinu" ("Father"). This approach probably caused quite a stir among some of the teachers at the time because it changed the way that some may have viewed God and their own relation to God.

God's Word, then, encourages us to remember that God is already intimately involved in our lives and challenges us to live out lives with greater awareness.

"Welcoming Others": Reflection for Sunday, July 18, 2010, 16th Sunday in Ordinary Time

2010-07-15T19:08:00.012-04:00

Today's Scripture can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

Being welcomed to someone's home is a wonderful experience. Warm, gracious welcomes show a sense of care and respect for another while affirming the person who extends the welcome.
God's Word today shows us the significance of welcoming others and helping them feel "at home".
We see Abraham graciously welcoming the strangers (Genesis) and we see Martha and Mary welcoming Jesus and his friends (Luke)
Both stories can actually be amusing as they relate to everyday life.
While Abraham welcomes the strangers, he asks his wife Sarah to do the work! And while some preachers may talk about the importance of prayer in the figure of Mary, I do wonder how Jesus and that group of traveling companions would have felt without a good meal!
I do like the image of Mary, though, as a reminder that says "Women do not have to stay in the kitchen". Jesus shows us that roles can be shared, and that God does not hold people in roles.
So, this week one thing that God's Word shows is that God welcomes us; God wants to be "at home" with us. And then God's Word challenges us to welcome others.
God's Word can also encourage us not to limit ourselves to expected roles, and even to help out in the kitchen! We may not often think of something as mundane as being in the kitchen as an expression of God's Presence, but I do think that the Good News this week reminds us that everyday life can take on new meaning!

"It's Simple - We Are All Connected": Reflection for July 11,2010, 15th Sunday in Ordinary Time

2010-07-09T13:32:00.024-04:00

Today's Scripture can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

Life can really be simpler than we often think. In our search for meaning or our desire to find our place in the world we may go far and wide; yet we often return to the place where we began. Indeed, as God's Word reminds us today, "God's Word is close at hand... already in our hearts and minds.." (Deuteronomy)
Becoming aware of God's Presence within us and within others can be a challenge. And trying to live out that awareness in eveyday life, often especially with those who are "close at hand", can also be a challenge.
As we try to "love our neighbor as ourself" (Luke) we often realize how our lives need to change.
God's Word can encourage us with the reminder of God's loving presence while it challenges us to let our lives show God's love.

To Think About: Do I try to remember God's Presence within me - and within others?
Is there someone - including myself- that I might treat differently if I believed in God's Presence within that person?
How do I respond to people who are in need?

To Do: When you look into a mirror, remind yourself that God is present within you.
Remind yourself that God is present in others by consciously seeing one person as a temple of God. Can you do this everyday this week?
Notice someone you might usually ignore by treating that person with a little extra respect or kindness.
Do some "Good Samaritan" random acts of kindness this week.

To Pray: Hear Jesus saying to you ," (Insert your name), I am with you always."

"The Gift of Life": Reflection for July 4,2010, 14th Sunday in Ordinary Time

2010-07-02T10:39:00.016-04:00

Today's Scripture can be read at www.usccb.org/nab.

I can't remember the last time that July 4 occurred on a Sunday, but I am really struck with an awareness of the way that God's Word relates to the heart of today's national observance. As we take time to appreciate our blessings as a nation and acknowledge its failures and needs, I think that we can also appreciate our need for God.

While the prophet Isaiah speaks of Jerusalem (Isaiah)- a blessed but flawed city- we might also think of our country.

And as we sing "Let all the earth cry out with joy to God" (Psalm 66- Responsorial) we can think of our country and of all who seek to live in freedom.

Finally, as we hear of those who helped bring the Good News of God's Love to others as disciples of Jesus (Luke), we can also think of those who have worked and continue to work for human dignity and freedom throughout the world.

God's Word can call us to new awareness as it challenges us to "just Do IT!

To think about: Do I take freedom and blessings for granted?

Do I work to continue the foundations on which this country was built?

Do I pray for this country and for all people in the world?

Do I try to extend the blessings I experience to others?

To do: Notice your freedoms and blessings; name them and tell your children or grandchildren about them.

Do something to help bring the freedom or blessings that you experience to others.

To pray: Pray for our country: "God bless America, land that I love"! and for the world: "This is my prayer, O God of all the nations, a prayer for peace."

Next week: 15th Sunday in Ordinary Time

"Travel Tips": Reflection for June 27, 2010, 13th Sunday in Ordinary Time

2010-06-25T14:11:00.018-04:00

Today's Scripture can be read at www.uscb.org/nab

Summertime... and people are on the road or in the air as they travel to selected destinations. Whether the trip will be long or short, all but the most unexpected trips involve some degree of planning, choices and decision-making. People can get advice and suggestions from varied sources. Traveling can bring about changes in attitude and awareness, broadening one's horizons. And most people, I think, want to know their destination when they begin their journey.

God's Word today reminds me of the journey of each person's life.

From the travel story of the prophet Elisha (Kings) to the ideas for one's life-journey mentioned by Paul (Galatians) and Jesus (Luke), God's Word challenges us to consider our own life journey and the way that we have been travelling this road of life.

To Think About: Have I thought about my own life journey and where I seem to be going?
Am I satisfied with the direction of my life or do I need to make some adjustments?
How do I treat others on the path of life?
Do I need to reduce some of the "baggage" I carry?
Do I remember that Jesus is with me on my journey?

To Do: Think about your goals and the way that you are living. Summertime is a great time to make one change that can help you "travel" better....
Find some source of joy everyday on your journey this week.
Assist someone who has been experiencing difficulties on their journey; opportunities abound.

To Pray: Pray the "Footprints Prayer" remembering that no one travels alone through life.

"Getting Unstuck": Reflection for June 13, 2010, 11th Sunday in "Ordinary Time"

2010-06-10T19:05:00.015-04:00

Today's Scripture: 2Samuel 12: 7-13; Galatians 2:16-21; Luke 7:36-50 can be read at www.usccb.org/nab.

It is just so easy to get into a routine that can become a "rut", an emotional, behavioral or relational "place" that just seems to define us. This "rut" can involve something small or something very significant that is really affecting our lives. We know what happens with the way that things are now, and we do not know wha tmight happen if somethng changes.

Yet God's Word today tells us that change is possible. Yes, we can change... Like David (2 Samuel) who was hardly a model of upright behavior, and like the woman who anointed Jesus' feet (Luke) we too can change.

And like these two characters, we need to acknowledge our "rut", our "shadow side", our behavior or attitude that is causing us to be stuck. And then we need to accept that we cannot change on our own as we reach out to God.

Then we need to "just do it": make one change that helps us move out of the place where we may be stuck so that we can experience fuller life.

To think about: What is one area in my life where I'd like to see a change - an area where I feel "stuck" or "in a rut"?
Do I try to change others without trying to change myself?
Do I depend on myself to bring about change? Or do I accept my need for God?
Do I get easily discouraged when a desired change does not happen as I wish?

To Do: Make no excuse as you change one behavior or thought pattern about a person or a situation, remembering that God is with you!

To Pray: Pray "The Serenity Prayer" with an awareness of a particular situtation or relationship in mind, realizing that the only one we can change is ourself.

Next week: 12th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Zechariah 12:10-11, 13:1; Galatians 3:26-29;Luke 9 :18-24

"What Nourishes You?": Reflection for the Celebration of the Body of Christ, June 6, 2010

2010-06-04T12:42:00.009-04:00

Scripture for today, the Celebration of the Body of Christ: Genesis 14: 18-20; 1 Corinthians 11: 23-26; Luke 9: 11-17 can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

Whether one thinks of food in terms of survival, nourishment, or pleasure, food retains a very significant focus in life.
Some meals are especially memorable and satisfying, not only because of the food itself, but also because of those who shared the meal. Other meals are especially significant because they recall special people or events.
Today’s celebration of the Body of Christ gives renewed meaning to this awareness of food’s importance as we celebrate the presence of Jesus as food, sustenance and nourishment for our lives.
While telling us meal stories where people are fed (Corinthians, Luke), God’s Word today also challenges us not only to be aware of the significance of nourishment for one’s body, mind, and spirit; this Word also calls us to consider the various ways that we provide nourishment for others.
As this Bread nourishes us, it also helps transform us so that we grow in becoming what we share: the Body of Christ.

To think about: Do I “look beyond the Bread” I eat, realizing that Jesus is not confined to church?
When the Eucharistic Minister says, “Body of Christ”, do I say “Amen” to myself as the Body of Christ as well as saying “Amen” to all who share this meal as the Body of Christ?
Have I thought of myself as bread that Jesus transforms?
How do I help provide nourishment for others?

To do: Be more aware of how you nourish your body, mind, and spirit.
Find some healthy alternatives to some of the nourishment for mind, body or spirit that you or your family consume.
When you contribute to organizations that care for others, reflect on how you are nourishing the body of Christ.
Notice some of the ways you serve and nourish the Body of Christ in others. As Mother Teresa of Calcutta commented, “ To me, Jesus is the Word to be spoken, the Bread of Life to be eaten, the Hungry to be fed, and the Thirsty to be satiated.”

To pray: “We are the Body of Christ”

Next week: 11th Sunday in Ordinary Time: 2 Samuel 12: 7-13; Galatians 2: 16-21; Luke 7: 36-50

" How Do I Picture God?": Reflection for Trinity Sunday, May 30, 2010

2010-05-28T18:46:00.007-04:00

Scripture for Trinity Sunday: Proverbs 8: 1-4, 22-31; Romans 5: 1-5; John 16: 12-15 can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

People have tried to define or explain God from earliest times. Yet all attempts at definition or explanation fall short of explaining the wonderfully great mystery of God!
The ways we envision God can affect our lives on a personal and a communal level.
God’s Word today presents images or glimpses of God that can speak to our lives:
God our Creator (Proverbs),
God our Companion (Romans),
God our Guide (John).
Realizing that the reality of God’s being extends into the world, we, in turn, are challenged to let these images of God touch our lives and make God’s presence real in our world.
As we help create opportunities for life and love to grow,
as we companion others in good times and in sad times,
as we help guide and direct others,
I think that we continue to make God’s presence alive in the world.

On this Memorial Day weekend we can also thank God as we remember the many men and women who have honorably served the cause of peace. Indeed, many of these fellow human beings sought to help people live in the freedom that the Creator designed.

To think about: Do I ever think of God’s delighting in me or delighting in others (Proverbs)? Am I so busy with my work, my responsibilities, and my expectations that I don’t take “down time” to notice beauty and wonder in the world around me, including the people in my life?
Has my image of God changed as I’ve grown and matured?
How do I relate to others whom I find difficult to love?

To do: Treat yourself to some “down time” to open your eyes to the wonders around you, and thank God, the Creator, for life and its many beauties.
Notice some of the people who touch your life, and thank God, our Companion, for their presence in your life.
Graciously give time, talent or treasure to someone who is experiencing difficulty of some kind and ask God, our Guide, to help you.
As you help create or sustain beauty and life, or as you interact with others this week, be aware of the ways that you continue God's work of creating and caring in your life.

To pray: “Thank you, Creator God…Companion God… Spirit of God in our hearts.”

Next week: Feast of the Body of Christ: Genesis 14: 18-20; 1 Corinthians 11: 23-26; Luke 9: 11-17

"Breath - A Sign of Life": Reflection for Pentecost, May 23,2010

2010-05-21T13:33:00.006-04:00

Scripture for Pentecost: Acts of the Apostles 2: 1-11; 1Cor 12: 3-13; John 20; 19-23 can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

Breath – A Sign of Life

Breath is such a natural part of life that we often do not think of breathing until difficulty arises. Then we become conscious of the importance of breath and its significance. Basically, breath is a sign of life!
Today, 50 days (“pente”) after Easter, Christians celebrate God’s Breath, God’s Sign of Life that fills God’s people and brings us to a new level of life (Acts of the Apostles, Corinthians).
In fact, today is celebrated as the Birth Day of the Christian community, the Church.
Just as every living being needs breath to live, so God’s People need God’s Breath, God’s Spirit, to live. God’s Spirit is the Dynamic Force that brings the church to life!
So we rejoice today that God's Spirit is with us, while, at the sametime rememberng that God's Word calls us to make this Gift meaningful in our lives.

To think about: Whose spirit guides me? Whose spirit energizes, directs, or inspires me?
Do I think of God’s Spirit as vital and alive, dynamic as an Enlivening Breath, a rush of wind, an energizing fire?
If I think of God’s Spirit dwelling within me, how do I treat my body, my mind, my own spirit?
If I think of God’s Spirit dwelling within others, how do I treat others (John)?

To do: Take time, even two-minute “vacations”, to rest and revive your spirit.
Once in a while try to put aside anxiety, worry, or regret - none of which really help change situations, anyway- and be conscious of your own breathing.
Try to breathe deeply, picturing God's Peace entering you with each breath.
In the midst of busy situations, be aware of God’s presence as a Guiding Spirit.
Select one place or relationship where you see a need for God’s Spirit to be more alive, and along with praying for that place or relationship, try to change one way you interact there.
Become actively involved in a work that helps people realize their own dignity as children of God.

To pray: Pick an image of God’s Spirit presented in Scripture: breath, wind, fire, or water, and pray “Spirit of God, be like _____ in my life today.” It might open up new ways for you to relate to God!

Next week: Trinity Sunday: Proverbs 8: 1-4, 22-31; Romans 5: 1-5; John 16: 12-15

"What's Your Vision?": Reflection for May 16, 2010, the 7th Sunday of the Easter Season

2010-05-14T18:32:00.005-04:00

Scripture for today, the 7th Sunday of the Easter Season: Acts of the Apostles 7: 55-60; Revelation 22: 12-20; John 17: 20-2 can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

What's Your Vision?

As personal experience, observing others, or continued learning may have taught, a vision or goal is very important. Having a vision or a goal can, consciously or unconsciously, affect our priorities, and, in turn, affect the ways we use our time, talent and treasure.

Although we may never be called upon to give our lives as a witness to Jesus as Stephen was called to do ( Acts of the Apostles), the way we envision and think about life touches ordinary, everyday choices as well as significant, life-changing ones.

As we may also know from experience, personal visions and goals call for periodic clarification and renewal. God’s Word today reminds us of the significance of one’s personal vision; this Word also challenges us to see how our visions and goals are touched by those of Jesus (John).

To think about: What influences my personal vision and goals?
What influences my family’s and my children’s visions and goals?
How do I define “success” and “achievement”?
Do I view people and circumstances in my life as Jesus views them?
How do I view people I consider my enemy?
Where do I need awareness of God’s presence to grow in my life?

To do: Take a few minutes each day (one or two minutes a few times a day can make a difference) to reflect on your blessings and gifts from God. Thank God for these blessings!
See the good that someone is doing and affirm those good words or actions.
Change your vision of consumerism by giving money to an organization that helps those in need instead of buying something you really don’t need. Let this be one way to show that your vision includes all people in the family of God.
Grow in living Stephen’s (Acts of the Apostles) and Jesus’ attitude of forgiveness: if there’s someone you’ve been unable to forgive, ask God to help you begin to want to forgive that person.
To pray: Picture Jesus blessing you as he says "May the love with which God has loved me be in you"(John) or “We are many parts, we are all one body” as a reminder of our connection to each other through God's Spirit.

Next week: Pentecost: God’s Spirit brings the church to life! Acts of the Apostles 2: 1-11; 1Corinthians 12: 3-13; John 20; 19-23

"Help for the Journey":Reflection for May 9, 2010, 6th Sunday of the Easter Season

2010-05-05T09:38:00.010-04:00

"Help Along the Way": Reflection for the 6th Sunday of the Easter Season
Today's Scripture: Acts of the Apostles 15:22-29; Revelation 21: 10-14; John 14: 23-29 can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

Sometimes “where two or three are gathered”, difficulties, misunderstandings and disagreements can occur. Resolving these conflicts requires time, effort and willingness on the part of those involved. Sometimes a situation even calls for outside help.

God’s Word today reminds us that we have “outside help” available for our everyday lives; God’s Spirit is always with us (John).
And an awareness that even the early Christian community needed to work through dissensions (Acts) can help us as we face difficulties in our own lives.
As we let God’s Spirit teach us, our own way of dealing with life’s uncertainties and interactions can change. We can see life’s occurrences in a new light (Revelation).

Today, as we celebrate Mother’s Day, we can think of the many ways that our own mothers, as well as the people in our lives who have been like mothers to us, have put God’s Word into action in their own lives and have helped us realize our own giftedness and abilities as we walk our own life journey.

To think about: Where do I turn when I experience difficulties, misunderstandings and disagreements?
Do I usually expect “the other person” to change and agree with me?
Do I usually need to have things my way?
Have I ever tried a new way of approaching a relationship or interaction?
Have I ever asked God’s Spirit to teach me?
Who are my models for the way that I live my life and interact with others?
What am I teaching by the way I live?
Who has been a significant teacher in my life?

To do: Do one thing differently in the way you think, talk, or interact with one person or in one situation this week.
Ask God’s Holy Spirit to teach you a new way to do this- a way that will help bring true peace. Thank someone who has touched your life in some way, someone who has taught you an important “life lesson”.
Contact someone who has made a differnece in your life, especially someone who helped you see your own giftedness.

To pray: Visualize the situation or relationship that needs God’s Spirit as you pray, “Holy Spirit, you are welcome in this place.”

Next week: Either (depending on your diocese) the 7th Sunday of the Easter Season: Acts 7:55-60; Revelation 22: 12-20; John 17: 20 - 26 or Celebration of the Ascension: Acts 1:1-11; Ephesians 1: 17 -23; Luke 24: 46-53

"In A Word": Reflection for May 3, 2010, 5th Sunday of the Easter Season

2010-04-30T16:40:00.006-04:00

Scripture for today , the 5th Sunday of the Easter Season: Acts 14: 21-27; Revelation 21: 1-5; John 13: 31-35 can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

In A Word

Sometimes just a few words can make more of an impact than a long discourse. In fact, as a message is condensed, the essential point usually becomes clearer.

God’s Word today tells us the essential point of Jesus’ legacy: “Love one another as I have loved you.”(John)
In our everyday lives we continue Jesus’ ministry as we put love into action, “wiping away tears…making things new.”(Revelation)
Yet, as we may have experienced, living this way can involve difficulties and sometimes even hardships (Acts of the Apostles).

In the midst of our life’s journey, God’s Word reminds us that God dwells with us; God is always present with us.
This wonderful image of God’s relationship with us as One who is at home with us, wiping away our tears, making all things new (Revelation) can strengthen us on life’s journey and help us keep essential matters in focus.

To think about: Do I try to remember that God is always with me, caring about me, accepting me, loving me...regardless of how I feel or how trivial my job may seem to me or to others?
Do I envision God as One who is at home with me?
When it’s hard for me to show love, do I just give up, or do I ask Jesus to help me to love as he loves?
Can I see some of the routine aspects of my life and my responsibilities as ways of helping God’s love grow in the world now?

To do: Notice examples of love that are right before your eyes: the many ways that people try to “wipe away tears”, or help those who are mourning or in pain.
Look beyond your own needs and take time to encourage someone who is discouraged and experiences difficulty showing love.
Show love to someone you find hard to love, perhaps by being more patient, by trying to listen, or by doing some small act of kindness.
Call, write or e-mail someone who touched your life with their love, and thank them!
Use one or two words of praise or thanks often during the day instead of using many words.

To pray: Use just one word like "Welcome" to remember that God is always with you. Or try "Thanks" as you remember people who have loved you in your ife.

Next week: 6th Sunday of the Easter Season: Acts 15:22-29; Revelation 21: 10-14; John 14: 23-29

"Signs of Life All Around Us": Reflection for the 4th Sunday of the Easter Season, April 25, 2010

2010-04-23T18:45:00.006-04:00

"Signs of Life All Around Us": Reflection for the 4th Sunday of the Easter Season.
Today's Scripture: Acts of the Apostles 13: 43-52; Revelation 7:14-17; John 10: 27-30 can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

Signs of new life can continue to flourish and amaze us if we take time to notice. Availability of water and light encourages this abundance of renewed life in nature. Often as the hours of light increase, we even feel our own spirits lighten!

God’s Word today reminds us that God’s life-in-us calls us to help life flourish in our world. Our Easter renewal of our Baptismal commitment reminds us that we have been lead to “springs of life-giving water” (Revelation).
In turn, we are called to respond with renewed awareness to this gift by the way that we live.

Like the Good Shepherd in today's Gospel reading (John), we bring life to our world in many ways.
God's Word “I have made you a light” (Acts) reminds each of us of our personal call to make a difference.

To think about: Do I ever think about God’s life within me as alive and growing?
Do I have life-giving images of God?
Does my life show that I believe in God as the God of life?
Do I let God’s presence influence the way I treat others, listen to them, help them, console them, or take care of them?
Do I bring my awareness of renewed life to environmental issues?

To do: Be aware of the ways you and members of your family help bring God’s life and light to your world in the simple, everyday things you do, including the ways that you make environmentally based decisions.
Decide on one area of your life where you see a need for God’s life to grow, and be attentive to the person in that situation during the week.
Pray for children who are celebrating First Eucharist at this time of year, that they will see Jesus as a Giver of Life, a Shepherd who knows and cares about each person.
Enjoy the life and energy of young people when you are with them.

To pray: Hear God say to you, “I have made you, (insert your own name), a light.” (Acts)

Next week: 5th Sunday of the Easter Season: Acts 14: 21-27; Revelation 21: 1-5; John 13: 31-35

"What Do You See?"; Reflection for the 3rd Sunday of the Easter Season, April 18, 2010

2010-04-16T10:10:00.012-04:00

"What Do You See?" 3rd Sunday of the Easter Season

Today's Scripture: Acts of the Apostles 5: 27-41; Revelation 5: 11-14; John 21: 1-19 can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

People, even when looking at the same object, can see and notice different things. Proximity to an object, familiarity and even special interest can all make a difference in one’s perception.

Since people seem to become more aware of the beauty of the earth at this time of year, perhaps looking at God’s Word today through a lens of environmental awareness can give us new insights.

A view of “everything in the universe; every creature in heaven, on earth, under the earth and in the sea” praising God (Revelation) can certainly affect the way that we view our environment.
And today as we hear the story of the disciples’ catching a full net of fish and then eating the freshly-caught fish for breakfast (John), we may almost be in awe of this event. The story certainly gives a vivid picture of an activity that many people would enjoy in this present day! Unfortunately, this is also an activity that many people cannot enjoy because of environmental pollution.

As Sister Joyce Rupp reminds us, "We can be nourished by a moment of wonder and beauty and be fed by God’s creation." (see www.ncronline.org)

God's Word strongly reminds us to live with respect for our created universe. As the poet Gerard Manley Hopkins reminds us, “the world is charged with the grandeur of God”.

To think about: Do I treat creation as God’s gift, handling it with care?
Do I “put my money where my mouth is” by buying products that do not deplete natural resources or contain excessive non-recyclable materials?
Do I try to recycle whatever I can, realizing that natural resources are limited?
Do I avoid unnecessary pesticides that contaminate ground water?
If I caught some fish, would I be able to eat them with Jesus, or have I kept quiet while local waters and air have become polluted?
Do I encourage efforts to help environmental awareness?

To do: Go take a hike or at least a walk, and just enjoy the beauties of creation.
Or go fly a kite and have some fun outdoors!
How about watching a nature program? You may be in awe of the wonders of creation.
Put your reflections into action, realizing that creation is a gift from God.
Commend your children when they show concern for the environment.
Find a local environmental event and get involved in it.

To pray: See how many times each day you can notice the wonders of creation and say “How great You are!” to the Creator of this beauty.

Next week: 4th Sunday of the Easter Season: Acts of the Apostles 13: 43-52; Revelation 7: 14-17; John 10: 27-30

"How Does Faith Grow?": Reflection for the 2nd Sunday of the Easter Season, April 11, 2010

2010-04-09T16:17:00.005-04:00

Scripture for today, the 2nd Sunday of the Easter Season: Acts of the Apostles 5: 12-16; Revelation 1: 4-19; John 20: 19-31 can be found at www.usccb.org/nab

"How Does Faith Grow?"

People sometimes worry when they experience doubts and questions about faith. Yet God’s Word today reminds us that doubts and questions can lead to greater, deeper faith. And God’s Word also shows us everyday ways in which faith grows.
Most of us can easily identify with Thomas as he honestly proclaims his lack of faith and his need to experience the Risen Lord (John 20: 19-31). Jesus does not denounce this man; instead, Jesus answers Thomas’ need and accepts Thomas where he is! And without even touching Jesus, Thomas believes in a new way!
When a person’s life reflects belief in the Risen Jesus, that life speaks volumes (Acts).
And being part of a community that tries to live the message of Jesus can help all of us remember that Jesus is alive today (Revelation).

To think about: What has “shaken my faith”?
In times of doubt, do I turn toward Jesus or away from him?
Am I able to bring my lack of faith to Jesus?
Do I realize that faith changes and grows and that often childish ideas need to be replaced?
Who has helped me in times of doubt and shaken faith?
What has helped my faith to grow?
How much does my life reflect my belief in Jesus?
Do I give my time, talent and treasure to caring for others?

To do: Notice signs of renewed life in nature; let them remind you of eternal life.
Thank someone who gives time and effort to help others, especially those who try to make Jesus’ message come alive today.
Consciously let your faith in Jesus influence a decision you make this week.
Make an effort to look for answers to some religious questions you may have by using the parish library or Catholic internet sites.

To pray: Hear Jesus say to you, “Do not be afraid (insert your name here) …I am alive.”(Revelation)

Next week: 3rd Sunday of the Easter Season : Acts of the Apostles 5: 27-41; Revelation 5: 11-14; John 21: 1-19

"Awareness of Life": Reflection for the Celebration of New Life, April 4,2010

2010-04-03T10:16:00.003-04:00

Easter - The Resurrection of the Lord: Today's Scripture: Acts of the Apostles 10:34-43; Colossians 3: 1-4; Luke 24: 1-12 can be read at www.usccb.org/nab.

Awareness of Life

Listening to the news certainly affects the way we view life. God’s Word today is a true “wake-up” call, reminding us that this news is good: Jesus lives! And we shall live! Death is not the final answer! Life does have meaning.

This news can definitely affect the way we view life; the way we use our time, talents and treasure; the way we treat people and all creation; the way we embrace our hopes and dreams.
As we consider this celebration of life's fuller meaning, let us look for small ways to help bring the message of new life to our world.

TO THINK ABOUT: What have been some “Easter experiences” in my life, times when I was in awe of life’s wonder, beauty, or grandeur?
Where do I, my family, community, and world need new hope in life and belief in resurrection? What difference does Jesus make in my life, in my family’s life?
Who have been life-enriching people for me?
How do I try to show that life is precious and valuable?

TO DO: Take time to enjoy signs of new life- in church: the 2010 Resurrection candle and baptismal font; in nature: see how many signs of new life you and your family can spot; in people: new attitudes, your child’s growth and even increased energy!
Work toward making “all things new” through attention to someone you’ve neglected.
Notice how you do “resurrection work” as you care for yourself and others in body, mind, or spirit.
Share memories of family members who have died.

TO PRAY: Jesus, be alive in my life!

Next week: 2nd Sunday of Easter: Acts 5: 12-16; Revelation 1: 4-19; John 20: 19-31

"Walking With Jesus": Reflection for Passion Sunday, March 28, 2010

2010-03-27T13:19:00.005-04:00

Passion Sunday: Today's Scripture: Isaiah 50:4-7; Philippians 2: 6-11; Luke 22: 14-56 can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

Walking With Jesus

This week, Holy Week, we walk again with Jesus as he passed from life through death to life. We move with Jesus from his hero’s welcome surrounded by friends and joyful followers to his time of suffering, abandonment and death.
As we re-live these last days of Jesus’ earthly life, God’s Word today reminds us that suffering and death were part of Jesus’ life. Jesus’ sufferings were real; his death was real; his walk through the dark valley was real. But we also know that suffering and death were not the end of his life.
We can’t close the book yet, because there is more to come. That’s why we look forward to Easter; we believe that something follows suffering and death.
Although Jesus knew that he was not alone : “the Lord God helps me” (Isaiah), he still experienced a sense of abandonment : “My God, why have you forsaken me?” (Luke).
Growing in relationship with Jesus calls for each of us to live so that “the same mind is in us that was in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians) This is indeed a lifelong challenge! Knowing that God is with us can help us as we continue to grow.

To think about: Is it easy for me to be a disciple of Jesus when everything is going well?
What happens to my relation with Jesus when there is suffering, misfortune, or difficulty in my life?
What would I have done if I had been with Jesus through the events of this week?
After I take my palms home, will I try to remember that Jesus is with me through the good times and the bad times, the peaceful times as well as the stressful times, the times of new life and the times of pain, suffering and death?

To do: Try to put into action some of Jesus’ words that we hear this week. "This is My Body, broken for you...My Blood poured out for you"; "Father, forgive them."
Be conscious of Jesus’ words as you serve others in the everyday chores and responsibilities of your life.
Point out ways that your children have been helpful by serving others in the family; many times small simple actions can make a difference!
Help someone who is suffering or dying. Call someone who is lonely.
Refrain from one treat individually or as a family, and give the saved money to a charity.

To pray: “Lord, let me walk this road with you.”

Next week: Easter Sunday – The Resurrection of the Lord

"Looking Beyong Restrictions"

2010-03-20T15:46:00.000-04:00

Looking Beyond Restrictions”: Reflection for March 21, 2010, 5th Sunday of Lent

Today’s Scripture: Isaiah 43: 16-21; Philippians 3: 8-14; John 8: 1-1 1can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

“Looking Beyond Restrictions”

While laws and rules certainly are essential for all sorts of groups in society, the type, reason for, and interpretation of the laws may vary according to the group.
As we move toward the end of this Lenten season, we encounter Jesus as he faces an accusing band of Pharisees who, as Law dictated, condemn only one of the two people caught in adultery, namely the woman (John).
Although such a discriminatory application of the Law was the observed practice at the time – and is a practice that is still found in some societies today, Jesus moves beyond the restrictive law and gives life and hope to the accused woman.
Boldly yet calmly showing that law is not the highest authority, Jesus is not trapped in the skewed Pharisaic vision. Rather, he embodies God’s Word and does a new thing.
In moving to a deeper, personal level, Jesus gives “water in the wilderness”(Isaiah) to this desperate child of God.
We, in turn, are challenged to consider the laws that rule our lives and the ways that we apply laws and rules to others.

To think about: How do laws and rules help or hinder my life/ my family’s life?
Are there some discriminatory practices in my life?
Do I judge people according to gender, race or religion?
Do I judge people according to my own interpretation of the law?
How do I respond to discriminatory, unjust rules?
How do I view those who question rules or those who work to change rules, even long-held rules?
Does my family need fewer rules to help family life?

To do: Hold a family meeting to decide on family rules.
Notice if you tend to judge people or accept people.
Speak up in the face of injustice or discrimination.
Encourage your child to speak to someone whom other children ignore or treat unfairly.
Give life and hope to someone in need through financial support to a group or organization that helps people who experience discrimination.

To pray: Hear Jesus say to you, “I am Bread for your life” when facing decisions this week.
Next week: Passion Sunday: Isaiah 50:4-7;Philippians 2: 6-11; Luke 22: 14-56

Being "At Home"

2010-03-13T10:26:00.000-05:00

Being “At Home”: Reflection for 4th Sunday of Lent, March 14, 2010

Today’s Scripture : Joshua 5:2-12; 2 Corinthians 5: 17-21; Luke 15: 11-32 can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

Being “At Home”

How wonderful it is to feel “at home” and to be “at home” somewhere. We can all probably think of places where we have felt at home; and we can also think of people who have helped convey the sense of being “at home”.

Today God’s Word vividly reminds us of the Good News: God wants to be “at home” with us!
In the very familiar story popularly known as “The Prodigal Son” (Luke), Jesus gives us an image of God in the Father who “ran to his child, put his arms around him, and kissed him” when the son turned toward home.

God’s Word reminds us that God is ready to do the same for each of us; God does not keep us at a distance.
This Good News can make a difference in one’s approach to life; it can even give a sense of new beginning.

We have renewed reason to celebrate life’s joys (Joshua), for, in accepting God’s love, “the old has past away; everything has become new.”(Corinthians)
God's Word challenges us, in turn, to extend that same love to others and to help put the past behind.

To think about: What helps me to feel “at home” in situations?
Who are some people who have helped me feel at home?
Do I picture God “running to me” in love?
Do I picture God running to different people I know?
Is there someone with whom I refuse to reconcile, someone I am unwilling to forgive?
Can I help someone feel more at home in a new situation?
How do I treat people who have disabilities that limit places in which they can feel “at home”?

To do: Picture God embracing you in love.
Picture God embracing your child in love.
Make that phone call to take a step toward a reconciliation in your life.
Help someone to feel at home in a new situation with a welcoming smile and greeting.
Instead of buying some new “extra” for your house, give financial support to help those who do not have a home.

To pray: Hear God saying to you: “Do not be afraid, I am with you. I have called you, ____, by name.”
Next week: 5th Sunday of Lent: Isaiah 43: 16-21; Philippians 3: 8-14; John 8: 1-11

"Keep On Growing"

2010-03-05T07:55:00.000-05:00

“Keep On Growing”: Reflection for 3rd Sunday of Lent, March 7, 2019
Today’s Scripture: Exodus 3: 2-12; 1 Corinthians 10: 1-12; Luke 13: 1-9 can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

Keep on Growing
Spring is almost here; we can see signs of new life beginning to emerge. We’ve been enjoying more daylight hours, and next week’s arrival of daylight savings time will give us additional time to enjoy the light.
In some places bushes and trees have been trimmed or pruned so that new life will emerge in a fuller way.
Nature reminds us that growth can be slow and surprising! Some seeds may have been planted indoors to get an early start. One may find that a bush or tree thought lifeless shows signs of new life.
God’s Word today reminds us of the marvels of growth and new life. This Word also calls us to look at the way our own “life tree” is growing and the ways that we help other lives to grow.
This is especially vivid in the parable of the fig tree (Luke) and in Paul’s reminder to “drink from the rock, Jesus” (Corinthians).
God’s description as the great “I Am” (Exodus) also calls us to remember God’s presence even when growth is not visible.
Our daily lives present many opportunities to look beyond our own desires and to find ways to add to life’s beauty, joy and love.

To think about: How is my “life tree” growing?
Do I need to make some changes to help my life grow in a healthier way for body, mind, or spirit?
Am I so occupied with producing material “fruit” that I have no time or energy for God or others?
What do I “feed” my child’s mind and spirit to encourage and foster good growth?
Do I express appreciation to those who give time and energy to help young people grow with good values?
Do I let regrets about the past or undue worry about the future wear away at my life?

To do: Notice how you spend your time and evaluate it in light of “If I had 24 hours left to live, what would I do?”
Turn off the computer or the TV and spend that time with a family member. Or use that time for quiet reading and resting in God.
Notice and affirm a good quality, attitude or action you see in a family member.
Try to stay in the present moment and be aware of God’s presence.
Try adding a smile to someone’s life!

To pray: Repeat Jesus’ promise, “I am with you always, _____”. Insert your own name to hear it better!

Next week: 4th Sunday of Lent: Joshua 5:2-12; 2 Corinthians 5: 17-21; Luke 15: 11-32

"Seeing in a New Light"

2010-02-26T10:42:00.001-05:00

“Seeing in a New Light” Reflection for February 28, 2010; 2nd Sunday of Lent

Today’s Scripture: Genesis 15: 1-18; Philippians 3: 17- 4:1; Luke 9: 28-36 can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

Seeing in a New Light

Most of us can probably remember special “Aha!” moments when we’ve seen life in a new way. A feeling of connection with the wider universe, an awareness of life’s fragility, or a sense of deeper insight can mark such moments. People often comment that such times have been moments of transformation.

God’s Word today reminds us of significant moments that give new insights into who we are and who God is.
Abram, a symbol of all who try to be in relationship with God, experiences God’s presence in his life (Genesis).
Peter, James and John see Jesus at a time of transformation; they become aware of God’s love within Jesus (Luke).

Like the apostles who accompanied Jesus, we do not stay in the experience, we return to daily life: “after the ecstasy, the laundry”, according to an ancient saying.

While experiences of God are important, God’s Word today challenges us to let these deeper insights touch the way we live (Philippians).

To think about: What have been some special moments of insight that I remember?
How have they touched or influenced my life?
Is there a relationship in my life that needs transformation - one that I need to see in a new way?
What does my use of time, talents, and treasure show about my priorities and values?
Do I spend time with my family and try to see goodness in those who are close to me?
Do I express appreciation to others for simple actions?

To do: Help someone to experience life’s beauty with a call, a visit, a note, a smile.
Thank someone who has helped you see things in a new way, with new insights.
Affirm a talent or gift that you see in another person.
Be aware of the way that you use earth’s resources this week.
Thank God for the ordinary blessings of your life.
If you are “wedded” to one view of a person or group of people, take time to consider your willingness to be changed by new insights.

To pray: Hear Jesus saying to you, “You are my chosen one”(Luke).

Next week: 3rd Sunday of Lent: Exodus 3: 2-12; 1 Corinthians 10: 1-12; Luke 13: 1-9

"Traveling With Jesus: A Journey to Renewed Life"

2010-02-18T11:48:00.000-05:00

"Traveling With Jesus: A Journey to Renewed Life" : Reflection for February 21, 2010, 1st Sunday of Lent
Today’s Scripture: Deuteronomy 26: 1-11; Romans 10: 8-13; Luke 4: 1-13 can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

Traveling can certainly be very stressful. In fact, sometimes people even return from vacations more exhausted than before the trip!

As we begin this Lenten time, God’s Word presents us with images of journeys.
We hear of the Israelites who, in the midst of their own journey to the Land of Promise, recall their family history and the journey of their ancestors (Deuteronomy).
We also hear of Jesus’ journey into the desert where he faces challenges and struggles (Luke).

As all travelers know, journeys can provide new insights and greater awareness.
God's Word today challenges us to consider Lent as a journey time: a time for new insights and greater awareness, a time to consider the direction in which one’s life is heading, as well as changes or adjustments that might make life’s voyage more meaningful.

To think about: How willing am I to include Jesus in my life journey, letting His influence touch my life?
Does my life reflect any awareness that “The Word is near you, on your lips and in your heart”(Romans)?
For a journey to begin, one must leave some things behind and take that first step. What do I need to leave behind if I want to travel with new awareness of God in my life?
Can I change one way that I use my time, talents, or treasure so that my life journey is renewed?

To do: Be aware of how your lips and heart reflect God’s Presence; let “Thanks” be often on your lips and in your heart.
Speak up in the face of injustice; replace a word of ridicule or sarcasm with a word of direct acknowledgement.
Call or visit someone who is experiencing difficulty on their life journey.
Simplify your life journey by buying less and using what you already have.
Move from the computer, TV, or newspaper and spend time with a family member or as quiet time to experience a small time of renewal!

To pray: Hear God saying to you, “ Do not be afraid, (insert your own name), I am with you”.

Next week: 2nd Sunday of Lent: Genesis 15: 1-18; Philippians 3: 17- 4:1; Luke 9: 28-36

Keeping Love Alive

2010-02-11T20:02:00.001-05:00

“Keeping Love Alive”: Reflection for Sunday, February 14, 2010, 6th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Today’s Scripture: Jeremiah 17: 5-10; 1 Corinthians 15: 12-20; Luke 6: 17-26 can be read at www.usccb.org/nab.

Keeping Love Alive

Hearts, cards, perhaps a few extra chocolates, maybe even some beautiful flowers – all these signs of Valentine’s Day serve as visible reminders of love. But after Valentine’s Day, when the hearts, cards, and even the chocolates disappear and the flowers have died, love continues.
Like the “tree planted by water” mentioned in today’s first reading from Jeremiah, love continues even during the tough times of “summer heat or drought”,
Shown in the many small aspects of everyday life, love looks outward, rather than looking to acquiring more for oneself, and is seen in the many small touches brought to everyday life (Luke).
God's Word challenges us to look beyond a "happily-ever-after" version of love to a reality-based concept that acknowledges that love is shown in daily life (Luke).

To think about: How do I picture love?
What do I usually do when love meets hard times?
Where do I turn when I need love to be renewed or refreshed; do I turn to God, TV, popular culture?
Who are people in my life/ my family’s life who have helped love grow?
Do I notice and appreciate small signs of love in my life?
How do I encourage my child to show love?

To do: Notice and appreciate the small signs of love in your life.
Tell stories of people who helped you during difficult times - “times of drought”.
Thank someone who makes a difference by giving time and talent to helping others as a volunteer.
Show your child how to add love to life by learning a skill that helps others at home.
Take a few moments to turn to God and let God’s presence help your love “tree” grow.

To pray: “Open my heart, Lord; help me to love like you.”
Next week: 1st Sunday of Lent: Deuteronomy 26: 4-10; Romans 10: 8- 13; Luke 4: 1-13

"Change Is Always Possible": Reflection for Feb 7, 2010, 5th Sunday in Ordinary Time

2010-02-05T14:45:00.004-05:00

Scripture for today: Isaiah 6:1-8; 1 Corinthians 15: 1-11; Luke 5: 1-11 can be found at www.usccb.org/nab

Change is Always Possible

People sometimes claim that they cannot change because, according to them, “that’s the way I am!”
And sometimes we are reluctant to give another the benefit of the doubt because that person says or does something that is not within their usual mode of behavior; we think that someone else cannot change.
Yet God’s Word so clearly tells us today that change and growth are possible. In fact, as God’s Word vividly shows, not only can people change; they can also do God’s work!

Special talents or a certain level of holiness are not requirements to do God’s work! Realizing our own inadequacies can even make room for God to work in our lives (Isaiah).
Sometimes we may feel like Peter, working all night long and catching no fish (Luke).
Yet, when we ask Jesus to help us with our “nets”, and realize that we can’t “do it alone”, when we can say “Here I am; send me”(Isaiah) even with our shortcomings, God can work through us.
Like Paul “the least of the apostles, unfit to be called an apostle” we too can then rejoice because of God’s power, knowing that “by the grace of God I am what I am.”(Corinthians)

To think about:
Do I categorize people or think that some people, including myself, can never change?
Do I try to see goodness in others?
Have I ever moved out of my own “comfort zone” to do something I felt needed to be done?
Do I affirm talents and abilities in others?
Do I thank God for my own abilities and use these talents for the greater good?
Have I ever asked where God is calling me to use my talents and abilities?
Do I show my child how to use personal talents and abilites to help others?

To do: Say that word of comfort, praise or forgiveness that you don’t usually say.
Speak up in face of an unjust situation.
Affirm the small gesture or effort to make a difference.
Thank someone who uses time and talent to help others.
Put time into an activity that serves others; local opportunities abound!
Join with others who try to make a difference as part of national or international networks.

To pray: “Here I am, Lord…I will go, Lord, if you lead me. I will hold your people in my heart.”

Next week: 6th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Jeremiah 17: 5-10; 1 Corinthians 15: 12-20; Luke 6: 17-26

'The Circle of Life and Love": Reflection for Sunday, Jan 31, 2010; 4th Sunday in Ordinary Time

2010-01-29T19:03:00.006-05:00

"The Circle of Life and Love"
Scripture for today, the 4th Sunday in Ordinary Time, : Jeremiah 1:4-19; 1 Corinthians 13: 1-13; Luke 4: 21-30 can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

“You can’t give what you don’t have” as a wise saying reminds us.
An individual has to experience certain realities or truths before putting those truths into action. Children must experience love in order to show love to others.

God’s Word today clearly reminds us that God loves us and knows us intimately “Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you.”(Jeremiah)

And God’s Word then challenges us to continue the circle of love by the way that we live (Corinthians, Luke), knowing that “actions speak louder than words.”

The familiar description of love as “patient and kind; not envious, boastful, arrogant or rude; rejoicing in truth, believing, hoping, and enduring”(Corinthians) can provideplenty of ideas for everyday life!

On any day, every action of love keeps the circle of love moving.

To think about: Do I ever think of God as one who knows me intimately…and still loves me? Do I thank God for my gifts and talents?
Do I try to reflect God’s love in my interactions with others?
Do I usually wait for someone else to be patient, kind or caring; or have I been willing to take the first step toward putting love into action?

To do: Put love into action: say that kind word, make that call to reconcile, affirm someone’s giftedness.
Remind yourself throughout the day that God loves you intimately.
Notice your child’s ways of showing love through cooperating, sharing and helping.
We all need to be reminded, so say “I love you” to people in your life.
Show love by giving money that you might have spent on yourself for an “extra” in order to help someone in need with a necessity.

To pray: Hear God say lovingly to you, ”Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you.”

Next week: 5th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Isaiah 6:1-8; 1 Corinthians 15: 1-11; Luke 5: 1-11

"Nothing Insignificant": Reflection for Sunday, January 24, 2010; 3rd Sunday in Ordinary TIme

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Scripture Readings for Today, the 3rd Sunday in Ordinary Time: Nehemiah 8: 2-10; 1 Corinthians 12: 12-30; Luke 1: 1-4; 4: 14-21 can be read at www.usccb.org/nab.

Nothing Insignificant

Many of us have probably experienced the way that some small, almost insignificant, event or action can become very significant and have a noticeable effect.
A small thread continues to unravel and suddenly the garment has a large hole; a small ache begins in one’s foot or knee and one’s exercise routine is gone; one unexpected smile brightens the day while one harsh word can create a chain reaction of responses. In fact this thought reminds me of the children's classic Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No-Good, Very Bad Day!

Scientists have, in fact, shown what God’s Word today so vividly reminds us: nothing is insignificant; life is a whole (1 Corinthians).

Whether we are referring to one's body or to the human family, one part affects another part.
Truly, our lives affect others in ways that we may never know.

God’s Word challenges us to recognize the value of life by the way that we live- or at least try to live (Nehemiah; Luke), showing that we believe in God and in our connection with each other.

To think about: Do I consider some people as insignificant or “less than” because of physical, financial or occupational conditions?
Do I give my time, talent, or treasure to help the body of the human family, God’s Family?
Do I try to push myself forward while ignoring others?
Do I care for myself and others as the Body of Christ?(Corinthians)

To do: Notice and thank someone who serves you in life’s everyday routine.
Call or visit someone who is ill, lonely or unable to participate in activities.
Listen attentively to someone you might usually ignore.
Thank someone who volunteers in a service that helps others in the community.
Move “out of the box” and speak to someone younger or older than you.
Say “Amen” to who you are: the Body of Christ!

To pray: “We are many parts, we are all one body.”(Corinthians)

Next week: 4th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Jeremiah 1:4-19; 1 Corinthians 13: 1-13; Luke 4: 21-30

"Seeing Others as God Sees Them": Reflection for Sunday, January 17, 2010

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"Seeing Others as God Sees Them" 2nd Sunday in Ordinary Time

Today's Scripture: Isaiah 62: 1-5; 1 Corinthians 12:4-11; John 2: 1-11 can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

Everyday life can contain any number of possible interactions with others. Some of these interactions may be barely noticed; others may be significant. How we view others can greatly affect the way we interact with them. Everyday stresses, unrealistic expectations, or past hurts can also affect our view of people.

God’s Word today reminds us that each person is valued and loved by God: “a crown of beauty in the hand of the Lord… the Lord’s beloved” (Isaiah).

Likewise, each person has God-given gifts and talents: “varieties of gifts but the same Spirit”(Corinthians).

As Jesus made a difference at the wedding feast of Cana, God’s Word today challenges us to recognize our own gifts, to use these gifts to serve others, and to help others recognize their own giftedness so that they too can make a difference in our world.(John)

With the tragedy of the earthquake in Haiti before our eyes, God's Word can take on renewed meaning for us.

To think about: Do I thank God for my talents and abilities?

Do I thank God for others’ talents and abilities?

Do I try to “catch them doing good” by noticing my child’s abilities and talents?

Do I try to see others, especially those I might not readily like, as someone who is loved by God?

Do I try to use my talents and abilities to make even a small difference in this world?

To do: Compliment or thank someone for a way that they have used their talent and ability.

Help people in Haiti as you contribute to one of the many groups that serve in that poor country. Help develop a child's talents and abilities by sponsoring a child in St. Augustine School Haiti (Call St. Mary's Office 732-780-2666 for info.)

Take time to see yourself as someone whom God loves.

Ask God to help you to see someone else, especially someone you find difficult, as God sees that person.

To pray: “We are many parts, we are all one body. And the gifts we have, we are given to share.”

Next week: 2nd Sunday in Ordinary Time: Nehemiah 8: 2-10; 1 Corinthians 12: 12-30; Luke 1: 1-4; 4: 14-21

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Baptism of Jesus: Today's Scripture: Isaiah 42:1-7 or Isaiah 40: 1-11; Timothy 2:11-14, 3: 4-7 or Acts of the Apostles 10: 34-38; Luke 3:15-22 can be read at www.usccb.org/nab.

Baptism: A Life-Changing Experience

Today the Christian Church moves in “fast-forward”, from the Infancy narratives two weeks ago and the story of the 12 year old Jesus last week to the ministry of the early Christian community. Talk about a leap! Buthere we are ready to look at ministry with the story of Jesus' Baptism and the beginning of his adult ministry.

Probably each of us can think of significant, almost life-changing events in life- events that have helped shape one's life direction.

God’s Word today reminds us that for each of us, Baptism was such a moment: a moment that can define who we are; one that can give direction and new meaning to life (Luke).

Such direction is clearly given: Baptism is meant to make a difference in our lives, especially in the ways we continue to bring God’s love to others and work toward peace and justice. (Isaiah, Acts).

To think about:
Do I look at Baptism as a “life-defining” event, an event that comes with a “job description”: living as a child of God?
Do I tap into the resource of God’s covenant with me as I live my life?
Do I see myself and others as God’s beloved?
Can I use my time, talents, or treasure to bring God’s love to others at home, in school, at work?

To do: Look at pictures of your child’s Baptism and talk about the significance of that event. Remind yourself of God’s covenant with you as you make decisions this week, especially in the way you treat others.
Bless your child by making the Sign of the Cross on your child’s forehead before school or bed.

To pray: Insert your name and hear God speak to you, “You,____, are my Beloved; in you I am well pleased.”
Next week: 2nd Sunday after Epiphany: Isaiah 62: 1-5; 1 Corinthians 12: 1-11; John 2: 1-11

"Following Stars": Reflection for the Celebration of Epiphany, Jan 3, 2010

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Scripture for the Celebration of Epiphany: Isaiah 60: 1-6; Ephesians 3: 1-6; Matthew 2:1-12 can be read at www.usccb.org/nab.

Following Stars

As we've all probably experienced at one time or another, in the midst of darkness even the smallest light can make a difference.
Today God’s Word reminds us that for all of us, regardless of the darkness we may experience, Jesus is a Light, a Star (Isaiah): "Your light has come,the glory of the Lord shines upon you. See, darkness covers the earth,and thick clouds cover the peoples; but upon you the LORD shines,and over you appears his glory."

What a difference that Star can make! Our lives can have new direction, we can find joy in simple occurrences (Matthew): "They were overjoyed at seeing the star... they departed for their country by another way."

Light helps us find our way in the midst of any darkness. Whether that darkness be personal, local or global, the Light of Jesus can touch and guide lives (Ephesians): "You are coheirs, members of the same body, and copartners in the promise in Christ Jesus through the gospel."

May we wisely follow the Star of God's Light and Love in this new year.

To think about: What stars am I following?

What stars are my children following?

Do I need to look to different “stars” for life this year?

Can I find ways to let Jesus, the “Star of Light”, guide me and my family this year?

Is joy a significant part of my relationship with God?

To do: Notice the “stars” you follow as you make decisions.

Consciously change one way you usually react or think about someone by letting the Star of Jesus’ Light guide you.

Make a few simple resolutions to use your time, talent, or treasure to bring Jesus’ Light to others.

To pray: “Jesus, be the Star who guides me, the Light who directs my path.”

Next week: Baptism of Jesus: Isaiah 42:1-7; Acts of the Apostles 10: 34-38; Luke 3:15-22

What's this "Holy Family" Stuff? Reflection for the Feast of the Holy Family, December 27, 2009

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The Holy Family: Today's Scripture: Sirach 3: 2-6, 12- 14 or 1Samuel 1: 20-28 ; Colossians 3: 12-21 or 1 John 3: 1-2, 21-24; Luke 2: 41-52 can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

“Seeing Family Life As Holy - Warts and All”

As the above title from a past Catholic Update reminds us, the very title of today’s feast, “the Holy Family,” is, for many, an oxymoron. It is a title that can certainly evoke many sentiments, ranging from disbelief and laughter to anger and regret. “Oh yes”, we think, “that title refers to Jesus, Mary, and Joseph. But it certainly doesn’t refer to my family -especially after the Christmas celebrations!” Yes, somehow we picture that Jesus, Mary, and Joseph really did have halos! After all, Jesus was God- what more would anyone want???

Yet God’s Word reminds us today that a holy family is not a picture-perfect, halo-wearing family. Real life does involve relationships that grow, evolve, and change (1 Samuel, Luke).

As we begin a new year God's Word can encourage and strengthen us with the renewed awareness that real family life needs effort and work.

Remembering that God is present in the midst of all the reality can make a difference! (Colossians).

To think about:
Do I try to accept myself and the members of my family as people loved by God?
Do I ask God to help me grow in compassion, kindness, patience, and forgiveness?
Where do I look for values for family life?
Do I have unreal expectations of what family life can be?
Do I show that family life is a priority for me in the way I use my time and energy?

To do: Set realistic goals for the new year with other family members.
Make gratitude and thanks part of daily life by noticing your blessings and thanking God.
Ask God to help you see yourself and your family members as God sees them.
Take time to access good family life sites such as www.familylifecenter.net, www.foryourmarriage.org, or the about.com marriage site for good ideas on family life.
Find ways to make God and the church community part of your family life, especially by joining activities with other families.

To pray: “I will hold your people in my heart.”

Next week: Epiphany of the Lord: Isaiah 60: 1-6; Ephesians 3: 1-6; Matthew 2: 1-12

"Making Room for God": Reflection for Sunday, Dec 20, 2009; 4th Sunday in Advent

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Today's Scripture can be read at www.usccb.org/nab : Micah 5: 1-4; Hebrews 10: 5-10; Luke 1: 39-45

Making Room for God

How easy it is to fill both the visible and invisible areas of our lives with possessions and activities that occupy every available space! Our lives can become so filled, that there is no space available for a quiet moment. At times all the activity can leave us feeling frantic and even without joy; even the thought of an empty space can create a sense of unrest.

We need God’s Word today to remind us not only that God has been with each of us through our life journey, but also that God continues to dwell with us, here and now, in the midst of our lives, as in Bethlehem (Micah).

We need God’s Word to remind us that God calls each of us to a personal relationship. Like Mary, we need to make room in our lives so that God’s life can grow within us (Luke).

In the way that we live, in the way that we show our values and priorities, in the ways that we use our time, talent, and treasure, we let God’s presence grow in our lives. As we make more room in our lives for God, we become what God invites us to be: a home for God.

To think about:
How will I let the peace and hope of this season touch my life and my family’s life?
How will I try to remember that God is with me, and with all people, in the midst of daily life? Can I accept my own inadequacies and those of others with an awareness of God’s loving presence?

To do: Be aware of God’s presence in yourself and in those you meet.
Notice gifts of love, joy, and appreciation.
Let Christmas songs during the week become a prayer for all people.

To pray: “ Be born in our lives, we pray.”

Next: Celebration of the Birth of Jesus

"Unwrapping the Gift of Joy": Reflection for December 13, 2009- 3rd Sunday of Advent

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"Unwrappng the Gift of Joy" Reflection for 3rd Sunday of Advent
Today's Scripture : Zephaniah 3: 14-20; Philippians 4:4-7; Luke 3: 7-18 can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

Sometimes joy and good news seem like forgotten parts of life; we can be inundated with bad news on the local, national, and international levels, and finding moments of joy can seem like another task.
Joy can almost seem like a flower that is stepped upon - like a small, fragile creation that lasts for a short time.
In addition, sorrows, difficulties, and pressures can often seem magnified at this time of year because of the emphasis on "forced" or "obligatory" rejoicing and celebrating that surround us.
God’s Word today reminds us that true and lasting joy is a gift that is integral to our relationship with God and with others!(Zephaniah, Philippians)
Even in the midst of sorrows, a small glimmer of light and joy can shine.
Joy is really a gift that “keeps on giving”.
By the way we live and the decisions we make we, in turn, can be a source of joy for others (Luke).

To think about: Where do I and my family find joy?
Do I notice moments of joy in daily life?
Do I fill my life and my family’s life with reasons for joy or with reasons for anxiety?
Is joy part of my relationship with God?
Do I thank God for the many gifts in my life?
How do I and my family try to bring joy to others?

To do: Take time either alone or with others to remember moments of joy. As you remember those moments, enjoy the smile that comes to your heart and to your face!
Notice moments of joy in your life now.
Continue to bring joy to others by the way that you use your time, talent, and treasure.
When you light your Advent wreath, thank God for someone who has brought joy into your life.

To pray: “Rejoice in the Lord always…”

Next week: 4th Sunday of Advent: Micah 5: 2-5; Hebrews 10: 5-10; Luke 1: 39-55

"Change Is In the Air": Reflection for December 6, 2009, 2nd Sunday of Advent:

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2nd Sunday of Advent: Baruch 5: 1-9; Philippians 1: 4-11; Luke 3: 1-6
Today's Scripture can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

All of us have probably seen the changes that construction brings, including varied landscape alterations and surprising detours that precede the arrival of new roads. Anticipation can build as preparations unfold for these new developments.
As we begin this second week of our Advent season, a mood of preparation and anticipation pervades God’s Word.
God is building something new; with the announcement of an impending arrival, a sense of change is in the air! (Baruch, Luke)
Each of us can help prepare for this special time by the way we live.(Philippians)
God's Word today can both strengthen and renew us as we remember our calling to make a difference in our world.

To think about: Do I believe that God can make a difference in my life?
Do I think of myself as a herald or announcer of God’s presence through the way I live?
Do I try to bring Jesus’ values to my daily life at home, in school, at work?
What are some of the “mountains, hills or valleys” that keep God’s presence from being part of my everyday life?
Am I seeking ways to make some of “the rough places” of life into “a smooth path” for others by the way I use my time, talent and treasure?

To do:
If you really don’t need to shop one day, do something to help new life grow:
be more patient, turn off TV and take some quiet time, look for blessings where you usually don’t see any.
Refusing to forgive can be a “mountain” in our lives; ask God to help you forgive someone toward whom you may still hold a grudge.
Pray for each person for whom you write a card or wrap a gift.
Use small moments to thank God for your own gifts and blessings.
Express appreciation to others.
Let Christmas lights and music be reminders of God’s presence in your life and in your family’s life.

To pray: Hear God saying to you, “You are my messenger; prepare my way.”

Next week: 3rd Sunday of Advent: Zephaniah 3: 14-20; Philippians 4: 4-7; Luke 3: 7-18

"What Are You Awaiting?": Reflection for November 29, 2009, 1st Sunday of Advent

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First Sunday of Advent: Jeremiah 33: 14-16; 1Thessalonians 3: 12-4:2; Luke 21: 25-28, 34-36
Today's Scripture can be read at www.usccb.org/nab
What Are You Awaiting?

Many of us have very little patience for waiting. Although we may find ourselves waiting in many different situations, we frequently consider waiting time to be “wasted” or “lost” time. The expectation of instant results can color our approach to many varied aspects of life - from daily tasks to relationships. Yet we know that, whether we like it or not, certain things in life just cannot be rushed! There are things in life for which we just have to wait!

As we begin this Advent season, God’s Word today reminds us to consider our values and priorities to see if God makes a difference in what we wait for and look for in life.
The reading from Jeremiah reminds us that God continues to come into our lives; while our reading from Luke reminds us of each person’s ultimate end to life in this physical plane of existence. Indeed, regardless of length of years, life is short!

Counterbalancing these heartfelt reminders, the reading from Thessalonians can greatly sustain us as we hear the prayer “May the Lord make you increase and abound in love for one another and for all…. so as to strengthen your hearts”

This prayer can anchor us and focus us as we begin our Advent season of 2009.

To think about: How do I react when I have to wait?
Do I often expect immediate results from my efforts?
Am I willing to “let go and let God”: to do what I can do and leave the results to God?
Do my actions show that I believe God is present in my life and in the lives of others?
What do I consider worth waiting for?
How patient am I when people do not act as I expect?

To do: Use everyday waiting times at stoplights, on shopping lines, or on the phone to breathe deeply and remember God’s presence within you.
These waiting times are also good times to remember others who are in need.
Call or visit someone who spends much of their day waiting in loneliness.
Be patient with someone you find difficult.
Wait before you buy that extra item; replace the impulse to buy something unnecessary with an action that serves or helps others.

To pray: “Come, Lord Jesus, give your people hope” or “Patience, for the Lord is coming.”

Next week: 2nd Sunday of Advent: Baruch 5: 1-9; Philippians 1: 4-11; Luke 3: 1-6

"True Greatness/ Thankfulness": Reflection for the Feast of Christ the King, November 22, 2009

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Today's Scripture , Daniel 7:13-14; Revelation 1: 5-8; John 18: 33-37, can be read at www.usccb.org/nab

True Greatness and Gratitude

As this Church Year comes to an end, we come together to celebrate an almost awe-inspiring, yet quite contradictory, vision in today’s feast of Christ the King. This "crowning" of the church year gives us incentive to consider our relationship with Jesus, the ways we think about him, and the ways that Jesus viewed himself.
Since we celebrate Thanksgiving this week, we might also consider our Scripture in the light of gratitude and thankfulness.

Although we may at times forget about Jesus’ divinity and power (Daniel, Revelation), God’s Word forcefully reminds us of Jesus' divine, eternal dimension. We can almost hear the trumpets sounding triumphantly as background for this King!
Yet, to our surprise and possible dismay, we also see how Jesus uses power, kingship and authority (John).
Jesus shows us that true power resides with accepting the truth that God is present in our lives and letting that presence make a difference in the way that we live.

God's Word challenges us to consider the ways that we view Jesus, and then to consider the ways that we try to live the Good News of Jesus in our world.
In our "Week of Thanks", we too can be more aware of our own "Gratitude Attitude" as we go through our daily lives. Sometimes we may be so intent on a great happening that we miss the many small blessings that can make a great difference in our lives.

To think about:

Whom or what do I worship by the way that I spend my time, talents and treasure?

Which image of Jesus do I prefer: the gloriously triumphant King or the servant King?

As I follow this King, do I seek glory or do I seek to serve?

Who are my children’s heroes; what is the message these heroes “preach” by their lives?

How many times a day do I thank God and thank others for the many everyday gifts?

How do I show thankfulness and gratitude in my life?

To do: Decide on ways to give gifts of service to others.

Select one or two ways to develop appreciation and thankfulness in your daily life by being more aware of the many gifts you already possess.

Challenge yourself and your family to develop a "Gratitude" or "Thanks" list each day this week. Notice the small everyday blessings!

Decide on limits for personal spending so that you can gift others who have less.

Serve others by brightening another’s life in some way by helping joyfully and gratefully as you respond to some need.

To pray: Let yourself sing "How great Thou art" a few times each day.

Next week: First Sunday of Advent: Jeremiah 33: 14-16; 1Thessalonians 3: 12-4:2; Luke 21: 25-36

"A Season for Everything": Reflection for November 15, 2009; 33rd Sunday in Ordinary Time

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Today's Scripture passages: Daniel 12: 1-3; Hebrews 10: 11-18; Mark 13: 24-32, are available at http://www.uscc.org/nab

A Season for Everything

Almost all the leaves have fallen from the trees; branches are bare and stark. As darkness continues to increase each day, we spend more time indoors. I’ve found that, for some unknown reason, schoolwork can often become more intense at this point in the school term; assignments and responsibilities seem to build to a crescendo.

With our Thanksgiving celebration approaching, we know that “countdowns” to holidays will touch our lives. Next week the church community will close the calendar on another church year.
Yes, this month is a time of transition, a reminder that life changes. We still have a few weeks to go before light increases in the afternoon, before we celebrate newness, before nature’s new life emerges once again.

God’s Word today reminds us that endings are not final for God (Daniel), for new life can blossom in unexpected places (Mark).

God’s Word also challenges us to bring light, hope and life to our world (Mark).

As we consider life’s changes, let us be more aware of our many blessings and the ways that we share those blessings with others.

To think about:
What are some signs that remind me of life’s brevity?
Do I let an awareness of life’s transience influence my priorities, my actions, and my decisions? Who are some people who bring light, hope, or new life to our world?
How do I or my family bring life and light to others?
Do I make gratitude an integral part of my life, of my family's life?

To do: Let an awareness of life’s brevity influence one decision you make each day.
Remind yourself this week: “If I knew this were my last day, what would I do differently?" Express your gratitude for everyday blessings and for people who add joy and light to your life. Bring light to someone in poverty or ignorance by giving money you might use for yourself to a worthwhile cause.

To pray: Insert your name and hear Jesus say to you, “You, _____, are light for the world.”

Next week: Christ the King: Daniel 7:13-14; Revelation 1: 5-8; John 18: 33-37

"Many Small Beacons of Light": Reflection for November 8, 2009; 32nd Sunday in Ordinary Time

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1 Kings 17: 10-16; Hebrews 9: 24-28; Mark 12: 38-44
Today's Scripture can be read in full at http://www.usccb.org/nab

I think that we'd all agree that a small flashlight can help us when we are in a dark place, and that a small nightlight can help provide comfort for children and a sense of safety for those who worry about tripping over objects at night.
Likewise we'd all probably agree that a friendly smile or a child's hug can brighten the day and that a word of encouragement can dispel doubt. Hopefully, we have all experienced the difference that some small gesture can make.
God's Word today reminds us of the significance of these "small gestures"(Kings, Mark).
We in turn are called to examine our own views toward what we value as significant, and to consider how we use our own small gifts to make a difference for God's People.

To think about:
Do I refrain from doing something because "it won't make a difference"?
Do I praise only the most obvious achievements, overlooking small efforts and accomplishments?
Do I thank God for small everyday blessings or do I overlook ordinary joys of daily life because they seem insignificant?

To do: Make that phone call, write that email or letter, send that card or visit that person you have been meaning to contact.
Notice ordinary gifts in your daily life; challenge your child to do an "Alphabet Thank You" to thank God for blessings.
Commend your child's efforts to change or to grow in some way.
Make an extra effort to share your own gifts through our Thanksgiving Food Drive.

To pray: Hear Jesus say to you, " You, (insert your own name), are a light for the world."

Next week: 33rd Sunday in Ordinary Time: Daniel 12:1-3; Hebrews 10: 11-18; Mark 13: 24-32

Family Reunion: A Time to Remember and Reconnect: Reflection for the Feast of All Saints, November 1, 2009

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Family Reunion: A Time to Remember and Reconnect:
Revelation 7:2-4, 9-14; 1John 3:1-3; Matthew 5:1-12
Scripture can be read at http//www.usccb.com/nab.

Family reunions can be wonderful ways to develop and foster a sense of connection with the past and present. People in photos take on new life; people in family stories assume a new reality; beloved memories resurface.

This weekend we celebrate our connection to those who have died. As we remember members of our own family, we also remember the greater extended family of God, including saints who are known to the universal church family and the countless saints who are known only to their local church or personal family. And as we remember, we once again acknowledge that death is part of life; death is the door that one enters to a new way of living.

Today God’s Word reminds us that there is life after this life (Revelation). As we remember those who now live in a new and fuller way, we can recall the love, care, and service that many of these people showed in their lives as they tried to live the message of Jesus (Matthew).
In turn, we can be encouraged by the promise of reunion (1 John) and be renewed in our desire to live a truly meaningful life that shows that each of us is a child of God.

To think about:
Who are some of the truly holy people I have known? What qualities of these people do I admire and remember?
How do I keep the memory of these people alive in my own life?
Have my views of death grown and changed as I mature and age?
Do I let a view of life beyond this life influence my priorities?
How do I keep the memory of a loved one alive? How do I want to be remembered by others? How does belief in God’s love affect my view of life and death?

To do:
Remember loved ones who have died by taking out pictures or telling stories about them. Consider a way that one person who has died touched your life and do something that reflects the person’s life.
Thank God for people who have been part of your life.
Call or visit someone who has recently experienced the loss of a loved one.

To pray: Hear Jesus say to you: “Rejoice and be glad. Blessed are you!"

Next week: 32nd Sunday in Ordinary Time: 1Kings 17:10-16; Hebrews 9: 24-28; Matthew 12: 38-44

"Need More Light?": Reflection for Sunday October 25, 2009; 30th Sunday in Ordinary Time

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30th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Jeremiah 31: 7-9; Hebrews 5: 1-6; Mark 10: 46-52
Scripture for today can be found at http://www.usccb.org/nab

Although the time to “fall back” to Standard Time isn’t until next week, we’ve already experienced the decrease in light each day. Most of us almost wince at the thought of darkness that will continue to become part of our lives for the next few months. How much we miss the light!

God’s Word today reminds us of the need for light in many areas of our lives, especially those that are enveloped in darkness (Jeremiah, Mark). However, often one whose sight is impaired develops an ability to see beyond the physical; sometimes that person may see more clearly than the sighted person.
God’s Word today also reminds us that we all carry areas of blindness within us, especially in the ways that we view God, self, or others.
This Word then challenges us to turn toward Jesus so that we will not only see reality with new eyes but that we will then let that new awareness touch the way we live (Hebrews). It's all about putting the Word into practice!

To think about:
What do I usually look for and notice in others: goodness and talents or faults and failings?
How do I treat those who do not see things as I see them?
Do I always think that my view is the superior view?
What do I do when I notice judgmental, prejudicial or stereotypical views?
How many of my views are the views of Jesus?
How do I try to alleviate the blindness caused by poverty or lack of education?

To do:
Notice goodness, talents and abilities in yourself and in others; thank God for these gifts.
Speak up when prejudicial or stereotypical views are expressed.
Try to listen attentively to someone who cannot see life’s fullness because of loneliness or sadness.
Thank someone who has helped you or a loved one to see life with new/renewed vision.
Take a walk and notice the beauties of nature.
And finally, please let me know if you have read this blog and if it has brought you any “light”. I’m trying to decide if I should continue this. You can email me at lightlady09@gmail.com or leave a comment. Thanks!

To pray: “Lord, that I may see” or “Open my eyes to the wonder of this moment”.

Next week: Solemnity of All Saints: Revelation 7: 2-4, 9-14; 1John 3: 1-3; Matthew 5: 1-12

"Seeking the Spotlight":Reflection for October 18, 2009: 29th Sunday in Ordinary Time

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29th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Isaiah 53: 10-11; Hebrews 4: 14-16; Mark 10: 35-45
Today's Scripture can be found at http:www.uscb.org/nab
Seeking the Spotlight

Images of well-known media personalities can flood our lives. Seeing people who “shine” and receive attention from others - even if only fo ra few minutes- can tend to affect one's attitudes and behavior.
While we may periodically yearn to be “in the spotlight”(Mark), God’s Word today reminds us of the significance of faithful attention to the quiet, unsung details our lives (Hebrews).
Our struggles, difficulties and sufferings may take on different appearances, and we may at times even feel overwhelmed by aspects of our lives (Isaiah).
Yet, God’s Word can strengthen us as we look away from the spotlight to live in service to others.

To think about:
How often do I seek the spotlight?
Am I faithful to my responsibilities even when I am not noticed?
Am I willing to serve others even when that service is not acknowledged?
Do I look for and acknowledge goodness and potential in others?
Do I see leadership as a chance to dominate others or to serve others?
Do I take time to thank those who serve others as volunteers?

To do: Thank someone who serves in a capacity that helps others – in church, school activities, sports or community activities.
Thank someone whose employment involves serving others in some capacity.
Do a “random act” of kindness or service for someone every day this week.
Serve someone in the wider human family by giving time to a local service organization. Perhaps your church bulletin contains ideas for involvement.

To pray: “To be your bread now, be your wine now, Lord, come and change us to be a sign of your love.”

Next week: 30th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Jeremiah 31: 7-9; Hebrews 5: 1-6; Mark 10: 46-52

"The Search for Happiness": Reflection for October 11, 2009, 28th Sunday in Ordinary Time

2009-10-09T16:06:00.003-04:00

28th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Wisdom 7: 7-11; Hebrews 4:12-13; Mark 10: 17-30
Today's Scripture can be found at http://www.usccb.org/nab

Throughout history people have tried to satisfy the basic human quest for happiness and fulfillment in many ways. Increased material possessions, power, leisure or recreational activities have often been used to fulfill this quest. Indeed, the search continues as people seek new items.
Yet, as God’s Word today reminds us, somehow none of these items has ever brought lasting happiness (Mark). Human beings need something more (Wisdom), something that gives true life to one's inner spirit (Hebrews). True happiness comes with this wisdom, as one learns to value what is really important in life.
God’s Word challenges us to evaluate our expectations of happiness and to consider the ways that we seek to fulfill our longing for happiness. After that challenge, we face the challenge to make a change or two in our lives.

To think about:
Where do I experience fulfillment and happiness?
Do I and my family ever try to differentiate between “want” and “need”?
Have I tried to simplify my life by buying less or acquiring less?
Are there simple joys I fail to notice because I am already involved in some future moment?

To do: Grow in wisdom by “counting your blessings” as you are going to sleep. Have your child do this too.
Practice having less by giving money that you would have spent for yourself to a group that helps others.
Clean out one drawer or part of one closet and enjoy the “pleasure of less”. Listening to music or to an audiobook while you're doing this can make the task go faster!

To pray: “There is a longing in our hearts, O God, for you to reveal yourself to us.”

Next week: 29th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Isaiah 53: 10-11; Hebrews 4: 14-16; Mark 10: 35-45

"Appreciating the People in Our Lives" : Reflection for October 4, 2009

2009-10-01T19:27:00.003-04:00

27th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Genesis 2: 18-24; Hebrews 1: 1-4, 2: 5-12; Mark 10: 2-16
Today’s Scripture Readings can be found at http://www.usccb.org/nab

Appreciating the People in our Lives

How easy it often is to take the people in our lives for granted At times, in fact, we may not even notice someone’s good qualities until that person is no longer with us. At the same time, sharing the road of life with its joys and sorrows, drudgeries and delights, can sometimes be wearing!
While clearly reminding us today of our need for other people (Genesis), God’s Word also challenges us to notice how we value the people who are part of our lives (Mark).
Remembering that we are all children of God (Hebrew) can make a big difference in the way that we view people and treat them.

To think about:
What priority do I give to the people who are part of my life?
How might you respond if someone treated you the way that you treat another person? Do I treat others as children of God?
Do I brush past people because I am too self-focused?
Do I look beyond my immediate family to reach out to the wider human family?

To do:
Show appreciation for someone in your life through your words or actions.
Take time to picture someone you know as a child of God.
Look beyond your immediate family and reach out to someone in need.
Visit or call someone who does not have family members nearby, especially someone who is lonely or ill.
Ask God to help you see a person you may find difficult as God sees that person.

To pray: “We are one body in this one Lord.”

Next week: 28th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Wisdom 7: 7-11; Hebrews 4:12-13; Mark 10: 17-30

"Seeing Goodness in Surprising Places": Reflection for September 27, 2009; 26th Sunday in Ordinary Time

2009-09-26T10:41:00.010-04:00

26th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Numbers 11: 25-29; James 5: 1-6; Mark: 9: 38-48
Today’s Scripture can be found at http://www.usccb.org/nab

We’ve probably all been surprised at one time or another with a response or an action that was “out of the ordinary”. An unexpected kindness, a generous offer, an unselfish act that we did not expect can startle us, especially when this is done by someone for whom we may not have had much regard. Seeing and acknowledging goodness where we did not expect it can actually even disturb us because we may have conditioned ourselves to expect a different action!

God’s Word today challenges us both to look beyond our own views of who we think is capable of goodness (James) and to acknowledge goodness in our world (Numbers, Mark).
When, in the reading from Numbers, we hear that two men who were not present for all the "rites" were prohesying because God's Spirit was speaking through them, we might be a bit surprised too!
And when we hear the disciples complaining to Jesus about the good actions of someone "outside the group", we quickly see what Jesus considers important.
(Mark)

This week I'll try to remember that God's Word challenges me to notice and affirm goodness wherever I see it! God's Spirit is alive!

To think about:
Do I stereotype people based on outward appearance, ethnicity, or other external factors?
Do I impute ulterior motives or belittle efforts made by some people?
Do I look for opportunities to “catch them doing good”, acknowledging and affirming goodness when I see it?

To do: Affirm your child’s efforts to help, co-operate, share, or establish a good habit.
Thank someone whose goodness touched your life.
Congratulate someone who has been acknowledged or honored.
Notice small gestures of kindness in your daily life.

To pray: “Open our eyes to the wonder of this moment…”

Next week: 27th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Genesis 2: 18-24; Hebrews 1: 1-4, 2: 5-12; Mark 10: 2-16

"Who's First?? Who's Best??" Reflection for Sunday, September 20, 2009, 25th SUnday in Ordinary Time

2009-09-18T18:47:00.009-04:00

25th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Wisdom 2:12-20; James 3: 16-4:3; Mark 9: 30-37
Scripture for today can be found at http://www.usccb.org/nab

Society acknowledges greatness in many different ways, depending on the qualities that form the basis for consideration. Political leadership, achievement in sports or entertainment, the status of one's job or one's family can all be a basis for a perception of "greatness". And, as we know, "greatness” in one area of life certainly does not automatically mean “greatness” in another area.

God’s Word today reminds us that God’s standards for greatness fly in the face of many cultural standards (James, Mark).
When we hear James' reminder that "wisdom is pure, peaceable, gentle and compliant", we might shake our heads in amazement!
And picturing the all-too-true-to-life scene of the disciples with their all-too-human "discussion" of "one-upmanship": "I'm greater than you are!!" makes the point even clearer. Ah, I can hear it now!
What does Jesus do? He shows this misguided group a child as an example of greatness!

As God's Word certainly challenges us to examine our standards for measuring greatness this week, we are called to notice what our lives say about our values.

To think about:
How do I and my family define “greatness”?
Who are some people I/we consider truly great? Why?
What qualities do I encourage my child to develop?
Do I take time to notice small acts of kindness, consideration, and helpfulness- or do I usually notice only the most prominent or ostentatious?

To do:
Speak to someone you might usually ignore, someone who quietly does a job or fulfills a responsibility.
Congratulate someone on an accomplishment.
Notice small acts of gentleness, kindness, peacefulness, and service in your child or in others.

To pray: “What you do to the least of my people, you do to me.”

Next week: 26th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Numbers 11: 25-29; James 5: 1-6; Mark: 9: 38-48

Say It or Do It? Reflection for September 13, 2009: 24th Sunday in Ordinary Time

2009-09-10T18:55:00.016-04:00

24th Sunday in Ordinary Time Isaiah 50:5-9; James 2:14 -18; Mark 8: 27-35
Today’s Scripture can be found at http:/www.usccb.org/nab

Over the years I've found that sometimes the Word of God as found in the Sunday Scriptures can be hard to understand! There have been times when I've really had to ponder the Scripture to find a key that opened a door to give some insight for my life. But this week's Scripture speaks quite plainly and once again reminds us of that simple reality that "actions speak louder than words."

While words can and do have great impact, a person's action can undo volumes of words. Anyone who interacts with others knows this to be true. Words, like faith, may be wonderful, but as James reminds us in his letter, "faith without works is dead"!

However, putting faith into action is not easy! Many times we are inconvenienced or harried; sometimes we have to find the courage to stand for our convictions or beliefs. Certainly Jesus' comments as found in Mark remind us that putting our faith into action does involve denying ourselves. And Isaiah also reaffirms the difficulties that can be experienced when one tries to put faith into action.

While we cannot do this on our own, we can be strengthened by God's Presence as we continue to try to "put our money where our mouth is" and live our faith in everyday life.

To think about:
Do I often give advice and think about how others should be living?
Do I think of faith as a power- source for my life?
How willing am I to try to "be the change I want to see"?
In what specific relationship or life situation might I put faith into action this week?

To do:
Let faith touch the way that you use your time, talent or treasure this week through at least one action every day. Ask God to strengthen you so that you take this step gracefully! (You might even put a small mark on the calendar each day as you do this as a reminder of how you want to grow as a follower of Jesus!)
Live the behavior that you want to see in others in a relationship or a life situation.

To pray: "Make me a channel of your peace" can help us as we move from prayer to action.

Next week: 25th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Wisdom 2:12, 17-20; James 3: 16 - 4:3; Mark 9: 30-37

Planting Seeds of Hope: September 6, 2009: 23rd Sunday in Ordinary Time

2009-09-01T14:28:00.009-04:00

Isaiah 35: 4-7; James 2: 1-5; Mark 7: 31-37

Today's Scripture readings can be found at http://www.usccb.org/nab

Fear is a very powerful force that can affect individuals, families, and communities from local levels through international levels. Fear can influence one’s approach to others; it can change thoughts and actions. Fear can blind us to possibilities, keep us from making changes, and almost paralyze us.

Fear is like a weed that can take over a garden. It needs to be replaced with something positive and life-giving in order to have something new grow.

God’s Word today reminds that God helps us move beyond fear (Isaiah) to new possibilities and realities (James, Mark). God's Word helps us envision the promise of seeing with new vision, walking in new paths, finding life in formerly barren places, and even leaping with joy!

This week as many people bring summer to a close with Labor Day celebrations, we know that many others face difficult times.

And as we commemorate the anniversary of the tragedy of 9/11, we also acknowledge the importance of individuals in our lives.

Yet we can take God's Word to heart as we ask God to help us continue to plant seeds of hope that will move us beyond fear to live as channels of God’s love.

To think about:
How does fear affect my life, my family’s life?
How much has fear affected the way I think about and treat people?
Does fear affect my decisions?
Am I afraid to change or take reasonable risks because of fear of failure? Do I fear looking bad in the opinion of others?
Has fear stopped me from speaking or acting for justice?
Has fear stopped me from admitting mistakes or changing my pattern of behavior?

To do:
Speak that word of apology that you’ve been afraid to say.
Reach out a hand of love to someone you’ve been avoiding.
Take the risk of doing without something; plant a seed of hope by giving that money to those in need.
Encourage another's hopes and dreams.
Thank someone who plants seeds of hope by giving time and energy to enable others to accomplish new things.
Encourage your child to reach out to a child whom others may ignore or treat unfairly.

To pray: “Make me a channel of your peace”.

Next week: 24th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Isaiah 50: 5-9; James 2: 14-18; Mark 8: 27-35

All "Fluff" and No "Stuff"? Reflection for Sunday, August 30, 2009 22nd Sunday in Ordinary Time

2009-08-27T19:17:00.021-04:00

Deuteronomy 4: 1-8; James 1: 17 -18, 21b-22, 27 ( This is really being selective); Mark 7: 1-8, 14-15, 21-23 (See above comment!)

Scripture for today's readings can be found at http://www.usccb.org.nab/

"You can't judge a book by its cover" is an old adage that, like many old adages, contains a great deal of truth. Most of us can probably think of a time when we've been surprised by someone's actions that were quite contrary - for better or for worse - to our expectations. Indeed, things might not have been what they appeared to be; our judgement was definitely inaccurate!

God's Word today reminds us of this truth and also challenges us to have the "cover" of our own "life's book" match the content of that book. I thought of this as I entitled this week's reflection, for sometimes we all can be a bit like cotton-candy: all "fluff" and no "stuff".

In the Letter of James the simple phrase "Be doers of the Word and not hearers only, deluding yourselves"(22) comes right to the point! But the amazing , almost jaw- dropping words of accusation in Mark that are addressed to the Pharisees leave no room for doubt that appearances count for nothing with Jesus. What is within makes the difference in how one lives!

So once again God's Word calls us to align our inner spirit with God's Spirit and then to put that Spirit into action in our everyday lives.

To Think About:

Am I generally judgmental or accepting of people?

Do I make judgments based on exterior elements like appearances, housing, clothing, job titles?

Am I or my family overly concerned about outward appearances?

Do I "put my money where my mouth is", having my actions match my words?

To Do:

Notice your prejudices and the reasons that you might prejudge someone. Awareness is a good first step toward change.

Talk to someone you might usually ignore; even a "Good Morning" or a "Thanks" can be good.

Encourage your child to see beyond stereotypes, even as you notice your own language about people.

Look for ways to contribute to a greater cause where you may meet different people.

To Pray: "We will walk with each other.. we will work with each other...: ( "They'll Know We Are Christians" )

Next week: 23rd Sunday in Ordinary Time: Isaiah 35: 4 - 7a; James 2: 1-5; Mark 7: 31-37

What Is Your Choice? Reflection for Sunday, August 23, 2009, 21st Sunday in Ordinary Time

2009-08-20T16:12:00.015-04:00

Joshua 24: 1-18 (bits and pieces of the section);Ephesians 5 : 21 - 32 or (I hope!) Ephesians 5: 2, 25 -32; John 6: 60 - 69

Scripture for today's readings can be found at www.usccb.org/nab.

The poet Robert Frost wrote of the significance of choices: "Two roads diverged in a yellow wood...I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference" ("The Road Not Taken").

Indeed, some choices seem to have been ones that have "made all the difference" in our lives, for they have provided the framework and direction for many of our life's details.

God's Word today reminds us of the significance of our choices and the way that these choices touch our lives.

In the first reading from the Book of Joshua, we hear of the ancient Israelites choosing to follow the One God.
In the passage from John's Gospel, we hear of those who chose to leave Jesus and those who chose to stay with Him.
And in the Letter to the Ephesians we hear of the significance of our relationships, particularly the relationship between spouses. (Hopefully most lectors will proclaim the shorter version, since the longer version carries the infamous admonition "wives be subject to your husbands" - a line that has certainly provided a framework for abuse over the years.)

God's Word today can strengthen us as we become more aware of our everyday choices and try to let those choices influence the way that we live.

To Think About:

What have been some significant choices I have made on my life's road?

What influences my choices: media, peers, society's expectations, the message of Jesus?

Do I give my child the opportunity to make age-appropriate choices?

Do I try to listen to God's presence within me when I make a choice or ask for God's guidance?

Do I trust that God can make something good come from a choice that I have made, even one that I regret?

To Do:

Choose a relationship or a situation where you can choose to act as one who is trying to follow Jesus.

Notice how everyday choices in the way that you use your time, talents and energy shape your life.

Give your child the opportunity to make age-appropriate choices, and let your child experience some of the natural consequences that follow some choices.

Ask God to guide you in a choice that you are making or a situation that you are experiencing.

To Pray: "Open my ears, Lord, help me to hear Your voice; open my heart,Lord,help me to love."

Next week: 22nd Sunday in Ordinary Time: Deuteronomy 4: 1-8; James 1: 17-18, 21-27; Mark 7: 1-23

How Wise Are You? Reflection for Sunday, August 16, 2009: 20th Sunday in Ordinary Time

2009-08-15T14:47:00.007-04:00

Proverbs 9: 1-6; Ephesians 5: 15-20; John 6: 51-58
Scripture can be found at www.usccb.org/nab

There can a big difference between being wise and being smart. We may kow people who are intelligent and well-versed in some area of expertise. We may,in fact, consider ourselves among them.
We may also know some very smart people who are not too wise, whose lives show that they are actually very foolish. Media seems to be flooded with stories of some of these people. Of course, there may have been times when we had to admit that we, too, were among this number!
Unlike knowledge, one does not learn wisdom by taking a course or reading a book, though these actions may help one become wiser. And while one may hope that a person become wiser with age, this is not always the case!
Wise people often see life in unexpected ways, and sometimes seeing beyond the obvious and valuing what others may consider insignificant or unimportant.
God's Word today reminds us to consider how we view life and to see how our view compares with God's view (Proverbs, John). This Word then calls us to live our values in everyday life (Ephesians) by making wise choices that can help others.
Next week: 21st Sunday in Ordinary Time: Joshua 24: 1-18; Ephesians 5: 21-32; John 6: 60-69

Pauses That Refresh and Renew: Reflection for August 9, 2009

2009-08-07T14:01:00.010-04:00

Pauses That Refresh and Renew: Reflection for 19TH Sunday in Ordinary Time: 1Kings 19:4-8; Ephesians 4:30-5:2; John 6: 41-51

Scripture can be found at www.usccb.org/nab

We may all have had times when it seemed that there was no time for rest because of situations in our lives. In addition to the actual time involved at these times, most of us probably carried the situation into the rest of our lives too. The burdens then became even heavier!

In reflecting on God's Word for today, I thought of the importance of taking time to find daily "R&R". The Elijah story certainly can "hit home" for many who have experienced difficulties. We may even have said as Elijah did, "This is enough, O Lord". We feel that we cannot continue on our own.

In fact, at these times we may experence the very same draining emotions that are mentioned in Ephesians: "bitterness, fury, anger, shouting."

Jesus reminds us of the importance of believing in God's Presence with us, the Bread of Life(John). This belief can make a difference in our daily lives, helping us move through difficulites to a renewed vision of a situation and strengthening us to continue our life's walk. As we are strengthened and renewed, we can then reach out to others who are experiencing difficulties in their own journey.

To Think About: Do I increase the size of my burdens by continuing to talk about them, worry about them, or remember them?
Have I tried to turn over my burdens to God - not just once a day, but whenever they surface? Do I try to find moments of peace and connection to God by breathing slowly and by remembering that I am not alone?
Do I encourage my child to find ways to deal with problems in practical ways?
Do I remember to affirm my own efforts to move toward greater awareness as I change my attitude or behavior?
Have I ever noticed the difference that a "Thank You" or a word of appreciation can make in
helping strengthen someone or dispel some "bitterness, anger, fury, shouting"?
Do I "taste and see the goodness of the Lord" (Psalm 34:1) in my daily life? Can it make a difference if I do "taste and see"?

To Do: Notice something good every day and then see how often you can notice something good in yourself, in another, in the world. This one action can make a difference in our awareness and in our behavior.

To Pray: "Taste and see the goodness of the Lord".

Next Week: 20th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Proverbs 9: 1-6; Ephesians 5: 15-20; John 6: 51-58

A Note from Lucille: I have reflections that I've compiled over the years that I had planned to edit for use on this blog. However, I seem to have lost the file when our computer died. I hope I find it soon!

Simplifying Unwillingly Reflection for August 2, 2009 18th Sunday in Ordinary Time

2009-07-31T14:37:00.003-04:00

Simplifying Willingly or Unwillingly: Exodus 16: 2-15; Ephesians 4: 20-24; John 6: 24-35

Scripture can be found at www.usccb.org/nab.

In the past year or two many people have faced obstacles and challenges that they had not anticipated. As the economic downturn touched more people and impacted family life, people were forced to make changes in many areas of their lives. This necessity to choose, to do without, or to find alternatives even opened some people's eyes to the differences between "need" and "want". As people simplified, many began to see that some accustomed areas of their lives were not really helpful or necessary. Somehow many simple elements of life became more important!
God's Word today reminds us of this aspect of human nature. The grumbling of the Israelites (Exodus) might sound a bit like us when things don't go as we had anticipated. Yet, as God's Word today reminds us, we do have many blessings in our lives.
This awareness of our everyday blessings can have a transforming effect (Ephesians), that helps us be more aware of the gifts that we already have. Indeed, an "attitude of gratitude" even makes a difference physically! Transformation can occur in many ways!
As we realize that we do have many blessings, we too will be more satisfied (John). In turn, we can even become a blessing to others!

To think about:
What is my usual reaction when things don't go my way?
Do I usually look for "more" and thus miss seeing the gifts in my life?
Have I tried developing an "attitude of gratitude" mindset?
Will simplifying some area of my life help me be more satisfied?

To do:
Try the "Gratitude Attitude" a few times a day.
Involve your family in making choices that affect them. For instance, children can learn to help with meals instead of going to a restaurant.
Commend your child when (s)he finds new ways to reuse instead of buying new.
Go through those closets and figure out what cloting combinatins can be reworked instead of buying more.
Try using some saved money to help those who do not have life's essentials.

To pray: Hear Jesus saying to you, "I am Bread for your life." (John)

Next week: 19th Sunday in Ordinary Time: 1Kings 19: 4-8; Ephesians 4: 30 - 5:2; John 6: 41-51

A Little Goes A Long Way: Reflection for July 26, 2009: 17th Sunday in Ordinary Time:

2009-07-23T18:39:00.002-04:00

2Kings 4:42-44; Ephesians 4:1-6; John 6:1-15
Scripture for today can be found at www.usccb.org/nab.

A Little Goes a Long Way

Have you ever faced a task that initially seemed insurmountable and overwhelming? Perhaps it was a “personal improvement project”, or a task at home, school or work. As almost everyone who has faced a situation like this may have learned, one helpful hint is to use small steps, and to concentrate on one area at a time. Although the improvement or change may not be noticeable at first, small, incremental changes begin to add up. One day we do notice a change!

Nature shows us many examples of this “small difference”. New streams or brooks develop, land erodes or increases, and amazing changes occur in rock formations when a few drops of water hit the surface of that rock for many years.

Relationships and behaviors can follow the same pattern. Small changes can make a difference.

How well God’s Word today reminds us of the change that God can make in our lives when we bring even our small efforts to God and try to help others (Kings, John). Like the young boy's few barley loaves or small fish, our contribution might seem quite insignificant. Perhaps the change that we hope to see in ourselves or in our world even seems out of reach (Ephesians).

God’s Word today can encourage us to continue our small, seemingly insignificant, efforts in our daily life, knowing that God can make a difference with our small efforts!

To think about:
Do I look for the results of my actions, or am I willing to contribute to the larger good without fanfare and notice?
Do I refuse to become involved in some efforts that try to make a difference because the problem is just too big or overwhelming?
Do I express appreciation for small gestures of kindness, love, and caring (Ephesians)?
Do I take time to notice my blessings, my family’s blessings?
Do I share my blessings and giftedness with others?
Do I notice giftedness in others, or do I usually feel threatened by another’s giftedness?

To do:
Take the first step in a project that seems overwhelming and develop a plan to take a step each day.
Express appreciation for small gestures of kindness, care, and love that you receive.
Notice your child’s efforts to co-operate, share, or be patient.
Thank God for your many blessings, especially noting small, usually unnoticed blessings.
Give money that you would spend on a new item of clothing, extra entertainment, or another restaurant meal to an organization that provides necessities of food, water, or housing for others.
Be more aware of the food you and your family eat, noticing taste, color, and fragrance.

To pray: “One bread, one body…And we, though many, throughout the earth, we are one body in this one Lord”

Next week: 18th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Exodus 16: 2-15; Ephesians 4: 17-24; John 24-35

Life’s Connections : Reflection for July 19, 2009

2009-07-16T11:56:00.005-04:00

16th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Jeremiah 23: 1-6; Ephesians 2: 13-18; Mark 6: 30-34

Scripture for today can be found at www.usccb.org/nab.

It is amazing how often small, sometimes seemingly insignificant, interactions can have a “ripple” effect and can stay with us for a while. In fact stories abound about wonderful moments that made a great difference in a person’s life. I know that I’ve received many such stories that circulate via mail. And as we continue to learn each day, we are amazingly connected.

God’s Word today can speak to us of this connection we have to God and to each other.
Unfortunately some people do have a negative influence; they “mislead and scatter” those to whom they are connected (Jeremiah). But this Word also tells us that God’s desire is to “gather… to reconcile… to make peace” (Ephesians).

In our own lives, particularly in the summertime, we might find ourselves interacting with others in ways that are different from our interactions at other times of the year. Like Jesus and his friends, we might find ourselves “in the boat” or involved in community projects of some kind (Mark)

This week we can use God’s Word to remember our connection with God who is present to strengthen us and nourish us (Psalm 23- Responsorial Psalm), and we can remember that we continue God’s work in our everyday lives in our interactions of caring for others, nourishing them in different ways, and trying to bring peace.

To think about: When have I experienced a sense of connection with a group or a community?
Do I have a connection with family and community? Do I encourage efforts to build community?

Do I know anyone who feels like a "stranger or alien" (Ephesians)? How do I try to include others in groups?

Has this summer become such a busy time that I and my family have been "coming and going… with no leisure even to eat" (Mark)? Do we need to make some changes in our schedules in order to appreciate each other and enjoy each other's company? Or do we need to move beyond the limits of our own family activity to become involved in a more inclusive community activity?

To do: Participate in a community endeavor and encourage those who give their time, talent and energies to such endeavors. Affirm your child's efforts to include someone new in his or her group.

Become involved with your child in an outreach effort to help others by visiting someone who is lonely, or by helping to feed someone who is hungry; community possibilities abound.

Take out family photos and reacquaint your child with family ancestors, those who were “shepherds”, who care for others and brought joy.

Do an internet search for information about some of the saints, especially those who might have a special meaning for someone in the family. A good resource site is http://www.findinggod.org/., Loyola Publication’s website.

To pray: "We, though many, throughout the earth - we are one Body in this one Lord.”

Next week: 17th Sunday in Ordinary Time: 2Kings 4:42-44; Ephesians 4:1-6; John 6:1-15

Looking for a Job?:Reflection for July 12, 2009

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15th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Amos 7: 12-15; Ephesians 1: 3-14; Mark 6: 14-19
Scripture for today can be found at www.usccb.org/nab.

Regardless of the condition of the job market, the market for Christians is always booming. In fact, Jesus has already selected each of us for a job. It’s up to us to respond and either start or continue working for Jesus.
While we may not think that we are well qualified or that we are “the right candidate” for the position, Jesus has other ideas. In fact, as God’s Word tells us today, God has chosen many people who did not think that they were qualified (Amos, Mark). However, God’s Word also shows us that God has chosen us (Ephesians).
Each of us, with our individual talents and abilities, strengths and weaknesses, likes and dislikes, is challenged and strengthened to respond to the job offer that God has given us: to bring the Good News of God’s Love to others.

To think about: How would I rate my “job performance” as a disciple? How do I let Jesus’ values influence the way my family and I live? If people were arrested for being followers of Jesus, what evidence could be used for or against me?
Does my life show that I consider discipleship to be a blessing or a burden? Who are some people who have positively influenced my view of lived discipleship?
Can I bring an awareness of being called and sent by God to one aspect of my daily life: the way I interact with someone, use my time, or spend money?

To do: Think “WWJD?” (What Would Jesus Do?) when making a decision or evaluating a situation this week. Look at your talents, abilities, and interests, and notice how you are already doing God’s work as a disciple.
Give your child opportunities to help and serve others by visiting an elderly neighbor or relative, playing with a younger child, or being involved in a community project.
Before going to sleep, thank God for the opportunities you had that day to be Jesus’ voice, hands, and feet.
Read a book or view a video of someone you consider to be a disciple; encourage your child to read about a Christian hero or heroine.

To pray: “I will go, Lord, if you lead me. I will hold your people in my heart.”

Next week: 16th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Jeremiah 23: 1-6; Ephesians 2: 13-18; Mark 6: 30-34

Can You Hear Me Now?: Reflection for July 5, 2009: 14th Sunday in Ordinary Time:

2009-06-30T19:28:00.004-04:00

Ezekiel 2:1-5; 2 Corinthians 12:2-10; Mark 6:1-6
Scripture Passages for today can be found at www.usccb.org/nab

Can You Hear Me Now?

As we’ve all probably experienced, sometimes cell phones just do not function properly. For some reason – or for a variety of reasons- the voice just doesn’t come through. In order to receive the message clearly, the speaker or the recipient needs to make some sort of adjustment. It certainly is a frustrating experience when that other voice can’t be heard. At times the transmission may be compromised; at other times there may be too much noise and too many distractions to pay attention and hear clearly.
God’s Word today seems to remind us of the reality of an inner voice and of the importance of listening to that voice (Ezekiel, Mark). In addition, this Word shows us some of the factors that can prevent us from hearing a message (Mark).
We, in turn, are challenged to be aware of the way we listen to God’s Voice in our lives, and of the way we respond to that Voice in our life and in the lives of others.

To think about: Do I believe that God is present in my life? Do I want to hear God in my life? Do I show that I value God’s presence in my life through my values and the way I use my time?
Am I often so preoccupied with my own concerns, anxieties, or regrets that I am not even aware of the present moment, the place where God is?
Do I try to listen to others, or do I usually have my own response prepared? How can I be a better listener? Do I, like Jesus’ townspeople, tend to dismiss some truths because of the person who is speaking?

To do: At least once a day try to stay in the present moment in order to hear the Voice of God present in your own heart and mind, in the people or events of your life. Spend a few quiet moments in the morning or evening aware of God’s love and presence; it can help “improve the connection”!
Listen attentively to someone you usually ignore or dismiss; try to summarize what they are saying. Commend your child for good listening when you see it.
Minimize the noise in your life by setting limits on the amount of time for TV and computer… and then do the same for yourself!
Go for a quiet walk and notice the stars and the sounds of nature. Play a “Freeze” game with your child by being quiet for a moment and noticing sounds around you.

To pray: Hear God say to you, “I will come to you in the silence; I will lift you from your fear. You will hear my voice, I claim you as my choice. Be still and know I am here.” (“You Are Mine”)

Next week: 15th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Amos 7: 12-15; Ephesians 1: 3-14; Mark 6: 14-19

A Touch of Life: Scripture for June 28, 2009

2009-06-23T20:38:00.006-04:00

Scripture for Sunday, June 28, 2009: 13th Sunday in Ordinary Time:

Wisdom 1:13-15, 2:23-24; 2 Corinthians 9: 13-15; Mark 5: 21-43

A Touch of Life

The children's classic Stone Soup tells the story of a town that had no food until someone put a large pot in the center of town and told people to bring just one thing to add to the soup. Gradually wonderful soup emerged and everyone in the town was fed.
Sometimes life is like this story of soup; at times we each can give only a small amount to a situation to help make a difference and possibly help bring about change. At times we may even wonder if our small contribution makes any difference. This, however, can be a self-defeating attitude that actually keeps someone from making a difference or being part of a larger good endeavor.

God's Word today encourages us and reminds us of our call to reach out and touch the lives of others. Even Jesus didn't heal everyone in every town in which he ministered. Yet Jesus certainly made a difference! He often healed by touching the person or simply holding that person's hand as we see in the story found in Mark's Gospel.

As God's Word encourages, strengthens, and renews us today, this Word also challenges us to use our own limited time, talent and treasure in our everyday lives to touch the lives of others. Sometimes even the slighest gesture or word cahelp bring life to another.

To think about: Who are some people who have touched my life in some way through their joy, compassion, understanding or patience? Who touches my life in practical, daily ways through their work or their generosity?

Do I have realistic expectations of myself and others or do I have expectations based on TV programs where everything is resolved in a limited amount of time? Do any of my relationships need help or a touch of healing? What personal gift or talent can I bring to that relationship?

How are Jesus and the church community a source of strength, help or healing for me and my family? Is there something I can do to help make this church community a sign of Jesus' love and healing?

To do: Thank someone who has helped you when you were in need. Do something each day, regardless of how small or insignificant it may seem, to touch someone's life with kindness, gentleness or patience.

Let Jesus’ relationship with you influence one way that you and your family use your time, talent, or treasure this week by showing love, care, or concern for others. Thank God for your gifts and talents. Parents can try to affirm the gifts and talents they notice in their child: gifts like kindness, gentleness,a sense of humor, caring for others, or co-operation.

To pray: “We are companions on the journey, breaking bread and sharing life; and in the love we bear is the hope we share for we believe in the love of our God” (“Companions on the Journey” by Carey Landry)

Next week:14th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Ezekiel 2:2-5; 2 Corinthians 12:7-10; Mark 6:1-6

An Anchor In the Midst of Life's Storms

2009-06-17T14:28:00.005-04:00

12th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Job 38: 1-11; 2Corinthians 5: 14-17; Mark 4: 35-41

At one time or another we have all experienced difficult times. At such times we may have felt that life's storms were ready to swamp the boat of our lives. During these times we too may have experienced some of the same emotions that Jesus’ friends experienced; we too may have felt like we were almost perishing (Mark). Dread, anxiety and frantic activity may have beset us in the midst of these storms, and we may have even felt abandoned by God (Mark).

God's Word today reminds us that we are not alone as we continue to move our small ships through life's sometimes stormy seas; for, like the apostles in the boat, Jesus is right here with us. This life-giving Word, in turn, also challenges us to help others during their own difficult, stormy times.

This message can take of special meaning today as we honor fathers who have been "an anchor" during storms and have helped their children throughout life.

To Think About: How do I usually react to storms in my life; do I turn to God as a first or last resort? Who has helped me or my family during stormy, difficult times? How do I respond to someone who is experiencing a storm? What do I do to experience God's peace during the day? Am I "addicted" to news, conflicts, or problems that do not need to be in my life? Do I create unnecessary storms in my relationships because of my own unrealistic expectations? Do I prolong storms and difficulties by complaining but not doing anything?

To Do: Take time to remember ways that your father provided guidance (even when you might not have wanted it!) and ways that your father helped you through some storms in your life. Turn to God with thanksgiving each day so that you are aware of God's presence in your life. Picture yourself handing over your fear and worry to Jesus. Change a way of dealing with a situation that troubles you; ask help from someone you trust - and ask God's help and direction.

To Pray: Hear Jesus saying to you, "Peace….Why are you afraid?" Or pray "The Serenity Prayer": "God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference."

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Next Week: 13th Sunday in Ordinary Time: Wisdom 1: 13 - 15, 2: 23- 24; 2Corinthians 9: 13-15; Mark 5: 21-43